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To think they should have kept serving me?

309 replies

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:24

Went to collect 4 parcels from my local shop. I told her I had 4, she gave me 1 and said “thanks, bye” … I informed it again it was 4. It was taking ages and she claimed she couldn’t find it - but she’d already scanned my code and signed it in the book that it had been collected.

She said “yeah I can’t find it” and then the guy with her told me I would need to wait whilst they served the queue behind me.

Sorry I get there was a queue of 2 people but I was there first and was in the middle of being served and had already been patiently waiting. I don’t think I should have to wait even longer because they couldn’t find my parcel.

OP posts:
UnctuousUnicorns · 10/06/2025 17:03

Northerngirl821 · 10/06/2025 15:43

Why does every little minor annoyance need a mumsnet post/tiktok video these days?

Remember life before mobile phones and the internet, when you'd have to pick up a writing pad and pen, jot off a letter, place it in an envelope, pop a stamp on it , then trot off to the nearest postbox to send it to your local rag, or "Points Of View" on the telly, or something like that. How different life was back then. 😅

Needmorelego · 10/06/2025 17:04

BallerinaRadio · 10/06/2025 17:00

If I'm in that queue behind you I am 100% getting annoyed at the situation.

The right thing to do would be to say to you I can't find the other three, I'll just serve these other customers and then continue looking for your parcels as not to inconvenience everybody in the shop. Perfectly acceptable.

In some shops though the queue can be never ending.
People join it constantly.
At what point should the assistant decide that the serving of the "other customers" has finished?

Rosscameasdoody · 10/06/2025 17:08

EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:51

Holding the queue up messing around. Imagine how the person behind you feels knowing their exchange will take minutes but you’re stood there taking forever

How is this OP’s fault when it’s the shop - who are charged with receiving OP’s parcels and keeping the safe until collection - have messed up ?

PiggyPigalle · 10/06/2025 17:08

My irritant used to be back in the days of landlines.
Being served or attended to in an office, the phone would ring and I'd be left standing there, while they dealt with the caller.
I've left shops due to it. Stick your sale!

BallerinaRadio · 10/06/2025 17:10

Needmorelego · 10/06/2025 17:04

In some shops though the queue can be never ending.
People join it constantly.
At what point should the assistant decide that the serving of the "other customers" has finished?

How long does the queue get before they start serving other people? The door? The street? Four doors down?

PiggyPigalle · 10/06/2025 17:10

Yes OP, IMO they should have kept serving you.

Rosscameasdoody · 10/06/2025 17:11

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 10/06/2025 16:42

Look, they were prioritising other paying customers who may just walk out and go spend their money elsewhere. Those queuing to spend £20 on cigs and beers probably won’t want to wait for someone faffing on parcels. I’ve had this a million times and had to wait. It’s annoying but they had no urgency to OP who couldn’t really walk out at that moment . If you were a business owner would you worry about a 20p parcel, which was already paid for and the person would have to just be patient, or would you try and prioritise a £20 sale that may walk out any moment? I know what I would do, even though it’s annoying for OP. This is why I try not to get things delivered to my local newsagent where I can. There are loads of options on Vinted. And if you must. Then just be prepared to be patient and wait 🤣

Edited

And again, if you can’t offer a decent and prompt service, why offer it at all ?

MissSeventies · 10/06/2025 17:11

Some ridiculous posts in this thread, for those bemoaning the 'good old days' what happened to the customer always being right? I think someone even suggested that OP should have meekly slipped off home and came back later when the shop was quiet, so as not to disturb the imaginary queue or that she should be worried about how much the shop is making from a service that they have decided to offer. How is that any of OP's concern? If the shop aren't concerned about the service that they are offering I don't think OP should be expected to worry about their profit margin. OP I think YANBU they should have continued to serve you or at the very least one could have looked for your parcels while the other served other customers. I assume that as they had been scanned they would have been marked collected. I can only imagine how that would have went when you came back later and another member of staff was on.

Rosscameasdoody · 10/06/2025 17:14

BallerinaRadio · 10/06/2025 17:10

How long does the queue get before they start serving other people? The door? The street? Four doors down?

And by the same token how long before they realise that if the queue is consistently this long, they are not employing enough staff ? Happens all the time. The customer is presented with shit service and made to feel like a nuisance because the business is trying to cheapskate it to save money.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 10/06/2025 17:14

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 16:32

It doesn’t mean going into the back, it’s more 3 steps to the side as they are on a shelf under the counter.

And when I went in there was no one there, so apart from being closed I’m not sure how much quieter you can get.

MN really is ridiculous. I’m faffing, I’m messing around, I shouldn’t use the service, I should only use InPost even when it’s not an option, I’m excessively ordering, I shouldn’t collect more than 1 parcel at time, I should predict when the shop is quiet.

🤣🤣 you are so correct op, some ridiculous accusations made against you.

MargotTenenbaumscoat · 10/06/2025 17:15

I love a thread where every reply is nuts. Is everyone on glue now?

Tiredofwhataboutery · 10/06/2025 17:17

I think in little shops that double up as parcel points they only get a few pence per parcel. So they prioritise shop customers who keep the bills paid. I think it’s fine to say do you mind stepping to the side whilst we serve these customers.So long as they then sort out your parcel problem.

FuckAlexa · 10/06/2025 17:17

Yanbu to expect them to serve you.

You were also not faffing. They were.

If I have to wait in a queue it doesn't matter of the next four packages are collected by one or four people. I'm in a queue.i have to wait

Yabu for not telling us if they gave you the other three though. It is relevant because you'll have a nightmare getting that sorted with the original sender and a far bigger problem than making you wait, as they marked them collected

greengreyblue · 10/06/2025 17:18

notatinydancer · 10/06/2025 15:50

How is she a faffer ? She went to collect her parcels and the staff couldn’t find them ? How is that her fault? Also she’s said it wasn’t the post office.

Agree. What if the next person could not be matched with their parcel? Would they all be told to wait ? The other member of staff could serve the queue while the first staff member stayed serving her.

gamerchick · 10/06/2025 17:22

So did you get the other parcels?

viques · 10/06/2025 17:24

Grammarnut · 10/06/2025 17:02

It has the makings of a prize winning literary short story!

I am stealing the phrase “crickets!” to use in those times of frustration tinged with annoyance but which are not going to rock the universe

oh crickets, there is no more of the sour dough bread I like

oh crickets, a small bird has pooed on my car roof

only two eggs left and I wanted to make us an omelette for lunch, crickets.

MyHouseInThePrairie · 10/06/2025 17:24

MargotTenenbaumscoat · 10/06/2025 17:15

I love a thread where every reply is nuts. Is everyone on glue now?

😂😂😂

Sometimes it feels like people are just looking for reasons to say the OP is wrong

AlexisP90 · 10/06/2025 17:24

FrenchandSaunders · 10/06/2025 15:25

I thought this was going to be about being pissed in a pub ….

Me too 😄

Livelovebehappy · 10/06/2025 17:24

EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:51

Holding the queue up messing around. Imagine how the person behind you feels knowing their exchange will take minutes but you’re stood there taking forever

Due to the staff messing around though, not OP….

MyHouseInThePrairie · 10/06/2025 17:27

Tiredofwhataboutery · 10/06/2025 17:17

I think in little shops that double up as parcel points they only get a few pence per parcel. So they prioritise shop customers who keep the bills paid. I think it’s fine to say do you mind stepping to the side whilst we serve these customers.So long as they then sort out your parcel problem.

But they chose to offer the service so somehow it must be (financially) worth it right?

The reality is that most people chose a shop that is close. Making said customer ‘just’ collecting a parcel like this is likely to make them loose customers too…. I wouldn’t go there for other things after that.

Pickingmyselfup · 10/06/2025 17:28

If there was one staff member they should finish looking for your parcels before serving anybody else unless you gave the go ahead to serve the person behind you. Otherwise you could be there forever which isn't your fault. If the shop offers the option to post/collect parcels then that's on them, doesn't matter how many the customers are posting/collecting.

If there were 2 or more then one person hunts and you stand to the side waiting whilst the other person (people) carry on serving.

Needmorelego · 10/06/2025 17:30

BallerinaRadio · 10/06/2025 17:10

How long does the queue get before they start serving other people? The door? The street? Four doors down?

Well I imagine if they'd actually looked for the parcels it would have been sorted in minutes.
But they didn't bother.
They should either offer this service and do it properly (ie sort the parcels out) or not offer it.

catmothertes1 · 10/06/2025 17:31

You must live where I live! The very small corner shop does Amazon and Evri click and collect and it's a total shamble too.

whitewineandsun · 10/06/2025 17:36

Helpsremove · 10/06/2025 15:27

A film could be made about this

I need the laugh emoji

gamerchick · 10/06/2025 17:37

viques · 10/06/2025 17:24

I am stealing the phrase “crickets!” to use in those times of frustration tinged with annoyance but which are not going to rock the universe

oh crickets, there is no more of the sour dough bread I like

oh crickets, a small bird has pooed on my car roof

only two eggs left and I wanted to make us an omelette for lunch, crickets.

That's not what it means.