Lasts too long in bed, get rid?

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Been on a few of dates with a colleague. Not had sex yet, was internally planning on it.

When discussing sex a few days ago, he sort of pre warned me that he lasts notoriously long. Usually not far off an hour.

I know, men say this to show off. But he said it knowing that I was soon going to find out. Plus, it was prompted by me saying that sex over an hour is too long for me.

AIBU or is that a ridiculous amount of time? I don't want to be having sex for that long?! I feel like cutting it off already, before having to endure that.

Only an hour?
Didn't Sting reveal a few years ago that he had regular 7 hour Tantric Sex sessions with his wife Trudie Styler?

Does he finish? Has he been tested for diabetes? Taking certain medications? Here's what the Mayo Clinic has to say about it: www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/delayed-ejaculation/symptoms-causes/syc-20371358#:~:text=Some%20medicines%2C%20certain%20ongoing%20health,of%20physical%20and%20psychological%20concerns.

Ha, ha , ha, too much wanking? Lmao, why don't say what you're really thinking! LolI, i've learned a lot listening to you women talk, I thought women took at least 15 minutes to get off, 5 minutes after foreplay, suits me! 😆

I think that's very reasonable, whatever works.

So he is already telling you how sex is going to be? Do you even exist other than as a hole for him to put his dick in. Urgh he sounds absolutely gross. Sex is supposed to be a mutually created and enjoyable experience and way of relating. Time to extricate yourself from this situation whether you want intercourse for an hour or not.

It’s quite entertaining and enlightening reading all the replies on this
I had a relationship where he just couldn’t come not once in a fairly long term relationship the sex was boring, along with an overbearing adult daughter who was of the option that he should not be in a relationship as it was too soon after he became a widower which you got to laugh was over 12 years ago more like she wanted all his money when he dies.
I was one of three women over the years she got rid off
I believe that psychological abuse by the daughter affected him which is sad for him
sex is not everything in a relationship if other things are not right then it becomes a dealbreaker at least you were pre warned why he takes so long is really what you want to know!

Ditto - an ex used to pummel away for ages and I’d get regular bouts of cystitis !!!!!!

Lmfao, you're a cruel woman! 🤣

As a guy (Squeamish) oh, ffs, 🤣 no kidding! I really do love listening to women talking about sex, it's the best, thank you.

I am a man😂. I it takes longer than 3 minutes either she is ugly or not enough fore play.

I know, I know. I was gonna ask the same. I didn't reply, I assumed she didn't mean that, or did she? Lmao!!! 🤣

Read the room, mate.

What’s all this foreplay I’m reading about?

"I feel like cutting it off already"?

Oh, the relationship.

? In my humble opinion, pussies are for fxxking. ..
I mean, mine loves it. With the one person I love. But then when I am with him, absolutely love as much as possible. I don't count how long.

with the person, I would be under 1 minute.

This.
It is so true.
Nature is quick, a lion or T Rex might be coming, best to pass the genes on asap.. 😍

I don't really want to be put in the same category as this type of female, please! If she is a woman then I would say I am just me.

Cut. 'it'. off. ???

What if a guy came on here and said omg this woman says she takes ages to ... so I'm thinking to ... ? Sorry but it is insanely wrong to say that. Joke or no joke.

I am super respectful of the other person. Like, very respectful. As respectfulf as I expect from the other person. ... I can't believe anyone would actually say that out loud online. Am I very naive?

sorry, this has activated me in my defense of the dxxk : ) really

I really do love listening to women talking about sex, it's the best, thank you.
@JohnFrancis When (and if) you grow up you may realise that that is both rather foolish and mildly offensive on this site.

Inches or duration?

DH is like this, he is an utterly marvellous man and I love everything about him but my god it puts me off, I get so bored. I would be up for it so much more regularly if it was just a quickie. But he is amazing in every other way so not sure what I can do about it really.

Ha, ha ,ha, dump! What would I be tempted to say? Get the fcuk off me!