Lasts too long in bed, get rid?

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Been on a few of dates with a colleague. Not had sex yet, was internally planning on it.

When discussing sex a few days ago, he sort of pre warned me that he lasts notoriously long. Usually not far off an hour.

I know, men say this to show off. But he said it knowing that I was soon going to find out. Plus, it was prompted by me saying that sex over an hour is too long for me.

AIBU or is that a ridiculous amount of time? I don't want to be having sex for that long?! I feel like cutting it off already, before having to endure that.

Brilliant 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

An ex of mine liked marathon sessions. I did not. The excitement would run out, I'd be turned off and, frankly, starting to dry up. I'd be bored & wondering what was on the telly or thinking about someone something else.
The ex I had most fun with was intense & passionate & took nowhere near an hour. I'd get turned on knowing he was getting excited U& really enjoying it, and vice versa.
I wonder if he'd want to keep going even if you were running out of steam. His need to finish would be a big turn off, as would an inability to finish whilst you're still turned on.
I don't blame you for wanting to cut this short OP.

An hour PIV would be awful - he will have to find another way to finish!

And you really will be shuffling op - that’s if you can waddle about at all after his hammering at you.

If you don't want opinions--don't ask.

Really?! An hour of PIV sex???

Oh well...to each his own...

My old fuckbuddy was like this, not from wanking or porn but from a vasectomy.
we used to stop when I was bored or done!

If that includes time spent eating dinner, then ok. If not, it's either a no or he can start without me 😂

Or maybe he's so bad in bed that it feels like it lasts an hour - also a no 😩

😂

I’m I not aware of this. Why? What happens

This comment tells me you haven’t ever experienced this. It’s not ancouple
pf minutes with men like this, and then I ended up hurt in my jaw and wrist aswell as my vagina…

I mean you’re just wrong. 🤷🏽‍♀️ a lot of men don’t finish quickly through those things, even when you know what you’re doing.

The prostate is very sensitive. It'll either have them er..shuffling things along, or equally so horrified at the notion they'll not want to continue lest their fragile masculinity be shaken!

Reading a book would be a better option and a lot more interesting

My husband is a bit like that. Takes him absolute ages(due to an injury), so a quickie just doesn't work for him. I avoid sex completely these days as I get so bored, although we have a great relationship otherwise.

Is he taking viagra? My ex husband went on for bloody ages when he started taking this.
I hated it. Boring and borderline painful.

What... injury? 😳

Exactly, me too! I can see why you don’t fancy it much OP 😬

Haha! I'm going to use that expression all the time now.😂

This!

In the bin

This thread is interesting. Most posters have a pretty fixed idea of what they want, which is to reach a single orgasm relatively quickly. It's a pretty rigid utilitarian view of sex.

if that's what they want, that's what they want. Not sure why some posters are so saddened by this 🤷‍♀️

Not really. Lots of people have also said (such as me), that they enjoy long sessions too, and multiple orgasms. But that isn't every single time. I can't imagine lying there in one position (which is what men like this usually need to not disturb "flow") at 6am on a Wednesday morning, while he pounded away for an hour. And that's after foreplay.

There'd be no such thing as morning sex, or you'd be late (and sore!) to work every day. I like morning sex. I also like lunch time sex. But they can't be long, drawn out events. Those kind of things can be reserved for an evening - which we often do even if we've had quickies earlier on. Or, you know...if we're both knackered, we don't drag it out all night either!

Ohhhh! Thanks for explaining..I think my husband would quickly retreat if I went near his bum hole! It’s an absolute no if I go anywhere near! 😂😂😂