AIBU to feel completely distressed by the viral video of the aftermath of onlyfans worker Lily P 'sleeping with' 100 men?

[MumOfOneAllAlone]

I've tried to word this carefully.

Lily, an onlyfans star, aged 20something I'm guessing, slept with 100 men in one go, as part of a documentary.

Following this, she's on camera crying. She says her eyes hurt as some of the men ejaculated in them, despite her saying no.

My heart is broken for this girl. Im a feminist but I've never thought of sex work as being empowering?

Surely, the empowerment of sex work has failed this poor girl? And surely the 100 men who agreed to do this are criminals???

I'm so angry. You could see in the video that Lily is realising what a mistake this was and is very traumatised.

Anyway, didn't see a thread on this so thought I'd post. My heart goes out to her, and my brain feels very angry at those who failed to protect her.

Don't be ridiculous it's applied to all sorts of things it's not a woman specific term

Finishing someone's pudding off is eating their sloppy seconds!

@MumOfOneAllAlone just read she's planning 300 in a few weeks and working towards 1000 sometime in February.
I don't understand her attitude.

Misogyny on Mumsnet is so overused. If you don't agree with some posters you are accused of it or you are accused of being a man. I think it's quite controlling and bullying.

You’re absolutely right! Saying she’s the victim of SA is incredibly disrespectful to those who are actual victims 😔

Absolutely

She needs help....

Despite her poor experience bedding 100 men, Lily is determined to raise the bar by sleeping with 1000 men in 24 hours for her next sexual stunt. She has advertised it online with a picture of herself in a white lace camisole top accompanied by the tagline – ‘1,000 men in 24 hours. Male talent casting call. 18+ only. Location TBC.’
‘I dreamed it up with my assistant. I can’t wait... it’s very exciting. It will be a world record. A real challenge!’

I'm wondering where Bonnie Blue is. She has been her bestie doing stuff with her. Bonnie is very confident and seems a lot brighter and a little bit older. I've seen Lily saying she isn't in it to encourage other girls to get into porn but it's right for her.

I think the money is very appealing and she looks at people who have had to work for a normal wage as boring. Easy money.

I couldn't agree more. Most times I've disagreed with someone I've been told it's because of internalised misogyny and thred times I've been accused of being a man!

They don't realise they are shutting other women down by saying these things

It's the way of the world now. It's sexual freedom. The new feminism. Just tragic,again men have used women and womens freedom. Girls now compete against each other sexually, women perform for men they are so free they sleep with 100 men to prove how attractive and free they are. They all look like blown up sex dolls big lips false lashes contour makeup big boob's and butt's....it freedom to choose apparently. Just brainwashed sheeple.

Bit if an own goal tbh but I do feel a little sorry for her.

I’ve not heard this term refer to anything or anyone other than a woman.

Makes you long for the days when she could be locked up as public harlots. The damage she is doing to herself and women's causes is enormous. There have always been women so lacking in self esteem that shagging multiple men seemed like a good idea. Before social media it could be buried or left behind,now everyone will no forever. If she ever has kids god help them.

Love of money and five minute fame ! Surely there should be some sort of laws for this extreme content !! Vile on so many levels

Well many of us have.

I think they do, and it's intentional.

Absolutely. I'm going to tell people to Fuck Off like Gillian Anderson does. I love her.

Sure.

Some serious ignorance here. It's a massive act of self harm.

So whose world record is she "in training", I have read, to break by having 1000 creeps have sex with her? I've just read about Annabel Chong and her sad story of not even being paid for her world record of 251 men in 24 hours.

Are you doing anything to help her?

If she goes ahead with the 1,000 men I won't be on here talking about it. It is so dangerous.

I’ve watched the documentary on available on YouTube (the one that’s around 40 minutes, I’m not sure if there’s a longer version on Patreon). I just felt a bit sorry for her. She talked about her parents being aware, but not really knowing exactly what she does. But her mum does her accounts, she is paying for her parents to go on luxury holidays. How can they be ok with this?

The whole thing just seemed badly organised, ill-thought out and amateurish. There didn’t seem to be a plan - STI checks weren’t compulsory, no background checks, a baby monitor for her assistant to keep an eye on her. She put herself in a very dangerous situation. I felt deeply sorry for her when she broke down when the documentary maker asked if she had found it more intense than she thought, and obviously she did. So to then go on and be planning 300 men in further prep for 1000. What are we supposed to make of that?

She seems savvy enough to know that to keep the money coming in she needs to do more and more extreme things. Where does that end? I wish she had someone to steer her off this course.

Sorry but she’s not a victim. She’s an adult who made decisions under the guise of attention and fame. Because it didn’t work out the way she wanted to… well that’s the consequence of her own actions and hopefully she’ll learn. She’s trying to gain sympathy and play the victim card and all of you are eating it up. These people want nothing more than attention