AIBU to feel completely distressed by the viral video of the aftermath of onlyfans worker Lily P 'sleeping with' 100 men?

[MumOfOneAllAlone]

I've tried to word this carefully.

Lily, an onlyfans star, aged 20something I'm guessing, slept with 100 men in one go, as part of a documentary.

Following this, she's on camera crying. She says her eyes hurt as some of the men ejaculated in them, despite her saying no.

My heart is broken for this girl. Im a feminist but I've never thought of sex work as being empowering?

Surely, the empowerment of sex work has failed this poor girl? And surely the 100 men who agreed to do this are criminals???

I'm so angry. You could see in the video that Lily is realising what a mistake this was and is very traumatised.

Anyway, didn't see a thread on this so thought I'd post. My heart goes out to her, and my brain feels very angry at those who failed to protect her.

Yuck, I just couldn't look at the, men( if I knew who they were or her the same.

I'm not an apologist, an apologist for what? A woman exercising her freedom to fuck whoever she wants?

I just don't care, if you think people like Lily are wrong and need help, campaign to make gangbangs illegal or whatever, or don't because that'd be very Handmaid's Tale.

This with bells on.
But most won't believe you.

Agreed, I also dont understand the word apologist in this context.

Apologist for what? I dont have a feeling or view of this woman, either sympathy, pity, anger, disgust, none of those. I saw a thread and wandered in, wondered why the OP is so upset and distressed, thought 'meh, whats the big deal' but challenged posts painting this woman as some sort of downtrodden victim or exploited vulnerable lost thing

Many people are indifferent, many might feel bemused/confused, many might feel disgust. Some appear to feel sympathy even though in my view theres nothing to sympathise with (except the usual human sympathy for someone feeling tired and frustrated about a job/task/event they have taken part in)

I dont feel distressed by seeing videos of marathon runners crying in pain, or celebs eating kangaroo arses and then doing the same the next day, or when participants in dance competitions are crying in pain and frustration of not getting the routine right and they're exhausted and on the floor.

I thought it was just me who didn't understand why some of us are apologists.

As far as I'm aware I'm not a man or an apologists.

Yes, I have a DD and a DS and they both think that Bonnie, Lily and the men fucking them are vile.

when women voluntarily do this they are perpetuating the idea that a woman can be purchased to be used in any way possible. If she wants to behave that way then fine - but filming and monetising the content is just encouraging the exploitation of women for the gratification of men.

I bet this is what she’ll do

All so sad.

@NewBootsWeather

”sloppy seconds” is a very misogynistic term.

i appricate the update and ill refrain from using the term.

The internet didn't create this. There was a similar documentary made by Annabel Chong in 1995

Everything is

She is now advertising for male “talent” to take part in 1000 men challenge. Something is very wrong, there.

😂 I'll word it differently then. Most young men wouldn't fancy having sex with a women immediately after she had just had sex with another man.

Unless of course they were swingers or in a throuple as a PP kindly pointed out.

There's no debate on the Sara case.

There is a lot of debate on the Lily story, hence the interest.

Fuck off with your race baiting by the way.

I believe the role is termed “a fluffer” 👀

It says quite a bit about us all on MN that Lilly P's sex life attracts such interest but Sara Sharif does not.
Wrong name and skin colour vs right name and skin colour.

There’s been quite a lot of posts on Sara Sharif threads I think. I’ve commented on them previously.

Tbf sometimes people can’t always handle the mental load of talking about things like the deliberate abuse, neglect and murder of a child. Or they might not want to get into a discussion about it on a forum.

It’s a very heavy topic and I say this as someone who used to work in social services.

In my defence. I'm old and I've only ever known it to mean:

Having sex with someone soon after the person has had sex with someone else.

Like straight away.

Nothing to do with a woman dating again after being with someone else.

This is the same woman currently aiming for 1000 men in 24 hours, this was the 'training'.

She is feeding into the publicity and is complicit in the way many young men view women these days.

I am absolutely sure that she is upset behind the scenes, but by moving forward with her plans to attempt even more men my sympathy is short lived.

This is it, it's just too sad.

Not when they hear how much she made for prostituting herself.....

No doubt about it whatsoever....

She set up boundaries. Those boundaries were overstepped.

It doesn't matter how many people she slept with, that's SA, if she laid out, don't do this to me, and some of them did.

"Kaaaaa-ching!" - Mostly and some weird obsession for publicity....

Riiiiiiight....