AIBU to feel completely distressed by the viral video of the aftermath of onlyfans worker Lily P 'sleeping with' 100 men?

[MumOfOneAllAlone]

I've tried to word this carefully.

Lily, an onlyfans star, aged 20something I'm guessing, slept with 100 men in one go, as part of a documentary.

Following this, she's on camera crying. She says her eyes hurt as some of the men ejaculated in them, despite her saying no.

My heart is broken for this girl. Im a feminist but I've never thought of sex work as being empowering?

Surely, the empowerment of sex work has failed this poor girl? And surely the 100 men who agreed to do this are criminals???

I'm so angry. You could see in the video that Lily is realising what a mistake this was and is very traumatised.

Anyway, didn't see a thread on this so thought I'd post. My heart goes out to her, and my brain feels very angry at those who failed to protect her.

She's a grown woman and she made her choice.

She obviously knows now it was a massive mistake and I'm sure will suffer the consequences.

She's an idiot.

Slightly off topic but to shag 1000 men in 24 hours is around 8.5 sec per man and that's not including loo breaks or sleep

This is exactly what i think.

When a certain type of man thinks he has enough evidence on his side that a woman can't claim rape, he's happy to go ahead, no matter the clear poor mental state of the woman.

These men aren't stupid, and know when a situation is dodgy. It's so clear to me that she is mentally ill and needs serious help.

She won't get it though - i wonder how much money those profiting from her are making. People are vicious.

Everyone involved deserves prison time, imo, including the 100 men. And I'll always see her as a victim

She's stupid.
And no the men are not criminals. Words have meaning. They're gross, grim, whatever you want but they haven't done anything illegal (which is a sort of prerequisite to be a criminal)

She is an adult, she is responsible for her actions, there has to come a point when women and not treated like a child and actually should take responsibility for their behaviour

She chose to do this

I saw this and she's planning on sleeping with 1000 men. So I don't think she regrets it

I was a very vulnerable teenager. What sticks out in my mind is the men who saw this and backed the hell away. And then the men who didn't.

Now in my 30s and I just feel desperately for this girl.

it’s not empowering, it’s
trying to make a lot of money in a short one with extreme sex videos. Zero sympathy here, she apparently did this with multiple men before and was upset at things that happened then too.
This shite needs to be off the internet and this woman needs some counselling about her self harming and self hatred. I HATE this ‘happy boomer’ myth - it’s part of why 70
odd ‘ordinary’ men thought they could go and rape and unconscious French woman at the behest of her husband.

This kind of stunt makes me despair for both my daughter AND my son. We are warping the idea of what sex is for our young people.
Enough is enough.

Happy hooker that should be…

As much as I agree all involved are grim, not all women are vulnerable victims. Some are just bit dim... They had consent, she heavily advertised it, none of them are criminals.

Hopefully this will put an end to stupid fame making stunts like this.

I wonder if she realised after what stupid fucking thing this was and that it will be out there till the end lf Internet.

Is this the woman that was on This morning a few weeks ago? If it is then she really didn't come across well, calling women who didn't agree with her actions 'Karens' and was really quite arrogant.

she voluntarily put herself in this position then I think it's double standards to complain about these men not behaving like gentlemen.

//

This. She willingly did this hoping for more fame and notoriety. And if I recall correctly, at the time was very goady in suggesting that these man who sleep with her are only doing so coz their wives/GFs whatever are no fun in bed

The men who participated in this are disgusting and have no respect for women. She’s been brainwashed into believing allowing men to treat her this way is empowering.
It’s really sad.

She should be looking out for her own mental health in my opinion. She’s going this for publicity and to make money.

Have you seen some of the interviews since she did that? She is now going to do the same but with 300 men. She is "training herself" so she breaks the world record as she wants to do 1000 men in 24 hours.

She does sessions with Bonnie Blue too who is doing similar to Lily but has been in the news for her love of sleeping with 18 year olds, lads and dads and taking people's virginity.

I find the whole thing absolutely bizarre. Od be devastated if it was my daughter. They both say they enjoy it but I think the vast amount of money they are making is why they do it.

Honestly? I think she needs to be sectioned for her own safety. Her mental health is clearly out the window, and this is extreme self harming.

Also the men in this scenario are of course awful.

But she hasn't done this because she's desperately trying to scratch a living, she wanted to get famous.

Had it been a "nicer" experience I'm sure her post video would have been very different and she would have reminded us all how shit we are in bed that's why our men go to her

And to compare this activity to y ye majority of actual sex workers is a bit disingenuous too

So women can't think for themselves? They need a man to do it for them?

Agreed. What me thing this is something to be part of? It’s utterly bizarre.
Any male friend of mine who thought this was a cool thing to do wouldn’t be a friend for much longer. It’s so minging.
It must only be the absolute weirdos wanting to take part.

All the men involved are absolute shits and the fact that several of them went against her limits is proof that it's not hard to find men who will do what they want if they think they'll get away with it, and I guess they think that since she was willing to have sex with 100 men in a day, she won't be able to claim she didn't consent to everything they wanted to do. They probably think she really didn't have the right to say no to certain acts if she was going to say yes to sex with 100 men. Absolute shits, every last one of them. Alongside the Gisele Pelicot case, it's damning and horrifying.

And yet misogyny and woman blaming remain.

Well, judging by your inability to read my post, perhaps you need to have someone think for you.

Silly woman. What did she think would happen?

have just read the origins of that phrase having never heard it, thanks for offering an opportunity for education!

Someone needs to intervene. This is awful.