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NovemberMorn · 14/10/2024 19:09

PrincessofWells · 14/10/2024 18:13

Male violence against a female yet again. There's something fundamentally wrong in this world.

Not only male violence, the teeth marks on that little girls body were not from the two males.

dapsnotplimsolls · 14/10/2024 19:09

It looks like they're all blaming each other. I hope this doesn't mean nobody is found guilty. Bastards.

Corksoles · 14/10/2024 19:10

But this is facilitated by male violence against women because what the fuck else is the family court doing time after time but enforcing male abuse of women through the state?

Her poor mother. How will she ever begin to cope?

Ubugly · 14/10/2024 19:10

itsmylife7 · 14/10/2024 18:20

The headlines are all I can deal with.

Poor Sara .

I wonder where her brother is ?

It is beyond horrific so do not blame you.

NovemberMorn · 14/10/2024 19:11

dapsnotplimsolls · 14/10/2024 19:09

It looks like they're all blaming each other. I hope this doesn't mean nobody is found guilty. Bastards.

Hopefully they will all be found guilty.
And where were the teachers, neighbours, friends, why does society in general fail these kids who are living in a nightmare?

Mulhollandmagoo · 14/10/2024 19:12

itsmylife7 · 14/10/2024 18:20

The headlines are all I can deal with.

Poor Sara .

I wonder where her brother is ?

Same, I couldn't bring myself to read anymore, that poor little girl, what is going on in the world 😭

Thepeopleversuswork · 14/10/2024 19:12

andHelenknowsimmiserablenow · 14/10/2024 18:29

Family court gave her to her dad instead, and she says him and step mother made it more and more difficult for her to see her.
Horrific.

It makes you wonder what had happened to the biological mum. It’s hard to believe she could have provided a worse environment.

Poor little girl. Heartbreaking.

Thebellofstclements · 14/10/2024 19:12

MidnightPatrol · 14/10/2024 19:08

Awful.

what is ‘legally punished’ supposed to mean?

and biting a child… just… why?

And then for multiple adults to be aware and nothing to happen.

How does anyone end up being this violent and abusive? It’s grotesque.

According to the article he also said he would return to Britain to face the death penalty, so I wonder if he was aware of the legal differences between the UK and Pakistan. Which are considerable.

Packingboxesneeded · 14/10/2024 19:12

NovemberMorn · 14/10/2024 18:56

Heartbreaking, I hope you have manged to get on with your life with peace and happiness.

I also hope the three people who are involved in the torture and eventual murder of this gorgeous little girl suffer for the rest of their miserable lives.

I’m so sorry to read your post TashaTudor
Truly horrendous. I hope your therapy sessions have helped in some way although when cases like this appear in the news it must be very difficult for you 💐

EasternStandard · 14/10/2024 19:13

I can’t read the article but from the headline and her beautiful image this is absolutely horrific

Evil monsters. Makes me feel ill

AutumnLeaves24 · 14/10/2024 19:14

TashaTudor · 14/10/2024 18:51

I needed access to my medical records recently and it's recorded on there that I was raped and sexually abused by my father for years. I was forced to see him every weekend for a further 2 years after it was noted, missed every Monday off school and unable to walk. I was 9 years old and it's taken a lot of therapy knowing it was on my medical record and nobody cared. Unfortunately I don't think things will ever change.

Rest in peace beautiful girl

@TashaTudor

oh I am so sorry for what you went through with your father, but for to be ignored by the authorities is just beyond words. I want to pick the 2 year old you up & bring her home!! ❤️‍🩹

did you only find out recently that people knew & didn't protect you?

I hope your therapist is a good one xx

JemimaTab · 14/10/2024 19:14

dapsnotplimsolls · 14/10/2024 19:09

It looks like they're all blaming each other. I hope this doesn't mean nobody is found guilty. Bastards.

I hope that this will mean they get equal blame rather than get away with it.
I think it would be very difficult for any one of them to argue that they didn't know what was going on. That poor child would be in severe pain from her injuries, there is no way this would not be evident to someone living in that house.

Jifmicroliquid · 14/10/2024 19:15

God this is horrendous.

There are people out there who can’t have children who would do anything to have one and to love and care for them and give them a wonderful life. Then there are evil creatures like this who have children and do this to them. Horrific.

JackieQueen · 14/10/2024 19:17

TashaTudor · 14/10/2024 18:51

I needed access to my medical records recently and it's recorded on there that I was raped and sexually abused by my father for years. I was forced to see him every weekend for a further 2 years after it was noted, missed every Monday off school and unable to walk. I was 9 years old and it's taken a lot of therapy knowing it was on my medical record and nobody cared. Unfortunately I don't think things will ever change.

Rest in peace beautiful girl

I'm so sorry for what you went through 💐

It's beyond horrific that people can be so cruel to vulnerable and precious children. I hope all these monsters get what they deserve.

N4ish · 14/10/2024 19:17

There needs to be a register of home schooled children so Councils are forced to keep track of them and monitor their welfare. The law allowing adults to hit children also needs to be changed so abusers like this can't claim they were legally punishing their children.

Chowtime · 14/10/2024 19:18

youhavenoshameonyourface · 14/10/2024 18:24

How are people charged with murder allowed to refuse anything like that?

Well, how would you make her?

AutumnLeaves24 · 14/10/2024 19:19

Chowtime · 14/10/2024 19:18

Well, how would you make her?

Personally I'd have NO problem making her!!!

TashaTudor · 14/10/2024 19:20

JackieQueen · 14/10/2024 19:17

I'm so sorry for what you went through 💐

It's beyond horrific that people can be so cruel to vulnerable and precious children. I hope all these monsters get what they deserve.

Thank you, and others that have commented. I spent my entire childhood being sexually and physically abused and that abuse carried on my entire life. I'm now heading to 40 feeling happier than I've ever felt before.

OnaBegonia · 14/10/2024 19:21

This is one of the worst cases I've read, absolutely horrific.
I doubt they'll last long in prison.

timenowplease · 14/10/2024 19:23

Nothing about sexual abuse in the article but the iron burn on the buttocks and teeth marks on inner thigh would suggest that there was.

May they all burn in hell.

Thefaceofboe · 14/10/2024 19:23

saveforthat · 14/10/2024 18:26

Yes how?

It’s outrageous they can do something so evil and still have rights in this situation.

Poor Sara, heartbreaking.

Choochoo21 · 14/10/2024 19:26

It makes me so angry when these men feel remorse for killing a child - yet spend weeks, months, years abusing and torturing them with no guilt what so ever.

I guess they’re only sorry they got caught.

I guess it’s not the child they feel remorse for, they are just thinking about themselves and how they’re going to have to spend years in prison constantly looking over their shoulder.

We teach kids about stranger danger but it’s usually the monsters in our own homes that are the worse ones.
And yet these are the ones they wouldn’t tell anyone about.

DoYouReally · 14/10/2024 19:26

What an evil man.

"I'm running away because I am scared".

Imagine how bloody scared Sara must have been on so many occasions.

There aren't enough worst to express how angry this makes me. Children are a blessing and some people do horrendous things to theirs. I cannot understand it.

TashaTudor · 14/10/2024 19:26

AutumnLeaves24 · 14/10/2024 19:14

@TashaTudor

oh I am so sorry for what you went through with your father, but for to be ignored by the authorities is just beyond words. I want to pick the 2 year old you up & bring her home!! ❤️‍🩹

did you only find out recently that people knew & didn't protect you?

I hope your therapist is a good one xx

I found out recently that social services were aware and the doctors. My therapist is amazing but unfortunately I've had to accept that things my mum and step dad did were abuse (taking naked photos of me for example) whereas before it was very much my biological dad was the 'bad' one and if someone isn't that bad they must be good. They've all passed away now so on the one hand I don't have to confront them or deal with any fall out but I also won't ever get an apology or explanation. It feels like an absolute waste of a life and I can get really depressed wondering who I would be if I had loving parents.

Moonlightdust · 14/10/2024 19:27

Poor poor sweet angel. And if people don’t think these cruel beatings inflicted on children that they refer to as ‘punishments’ don’t happen regularly in certain Middle Eastern countries, they are naive indeed.

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