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AIBU?

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To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!

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TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:34

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

AIBU?

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MumChp · 30/07/2024 12:35

Then don't go...

oldmanandtheangel · 30/07/2024 12:35

I'm sure the men in your family are finding other ways to view tits ;)

OneTC · 30/07/2024 12:35

😵‍💫

WhenILookDeepInYourEyesISwearICanSeeYourSoul · 30/07/2024 12:35

Are there any topless men on this beach? Or is it just women you object to?

XenoBitch · 30/07/2024 12:36

They are just tits.
I bet there are men on the beach with moobs bigger than some of the women.

Olympics2024 · 30/07/2024 12:36

Then don’t look.

Thingsthatgo · 30/07/2024 12:38

Free the nipple!

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:38

How can I not look? They are not far from me!

there are not many t**s on the streets , why are they right there on the beach?

it’s not a nudist beach there are tens of families around how is that normal?

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Neurodiversitydoctor · 30/07/2024 12:38

Titties ? Really are you 6? Is it female nipples you are objecting to ? Then say so .

Heronwatcher · 30/07/2024 12:38

Titties? Are you auditioning for a part as an extra in a Deliverance remake?

Stay at home and watch countdown. But beware, they might occasionally make a semi-rude word by accident.

Seaglassandchampagne · 30/07/2024 12:39

They're literally just breasts, there is no need for drama. You can choose not to stare if they bother you.

You can also use it as an opportunity to teach your sons 1) not to ogle women and 2) that different parts of the world have different customs and attitudes to nudity, and that if it offends you it is your responsibility to only travel to places where the prevailing attitude is line with your own, rather than making sweeping and judgmental statements about people behaving in line with the customs of the country they are in.

NCfor24 · 30/07/2024 12:39

You don't have to look. It's just another body part after all.
I don't sunbathe topless and I think it's polite to pop a bikini top or t-shirt on when walking about, but lying down minding their own business...not an issue at all.
I don't think it a matter of what's right or wrong!

Might be good for your teenage boys to understand boobs are just another body part and not there for sexual titillation.

VerySadCase · 30/07/2024 12:39

If it isn't illegal in the country where you're on holiday, people can do whatever they like. There is nothing inherently offensive about women's bodies.

longdistanceclaraclara · 30/07/2024 12:39

We're in Spain, have to walk past the nudist beach to get to the family beach. Half mast todgers have led
To some interesting discussions with the kids...

AllThePotatoesAreSinging · 30/07/2024 12:39

YABU. I’m tempted to get mine out just because you don’t want to see them. Don’t take your kids to the beach if you don’t want to see skin.

FluentRubyDog · 30/07/2024 12:39

Erm, there's nothing wrong about breasts.

There is loads wrong about having a hissing fit over the fact that you can't control your husband or sons looking at them. Or even (gasp) the thoughts they may have about them.

I'm not even remotely prone to going topless, but I'm sure you'll find a jewellery maker able to fix those pearls that you sent flying with all the clutching.

And, seriously, "they're coming from certain European countries"... can you be any more disgusting?

IsThePopeCatholic · 30/07/2024 12:40

Stop policing women’s bodies. Women have breasts. What’s the problem? Do you prefer to keep them hidden so men can fetichise them?

MissMoneyFairy · 30/07/2024 12:40

Stop looking then and sit on your balcony instead

norasand · 30/07/2024 12:40

Seaglassandchampagne · 30/07/2024 12:39

They're literally just breasts, there is no need for drama. You can choose not to stare if they bother you.

You can also use it as an opportunity to teach your sons 1) not to ogle women and 2) that different parts of the world have different customs and attitudes to nudity, and that if it offends you it is your responsibility to only travel to places where the prevailing attitude is line with your own, rather than making sweeping and judgmental statements about people behaving in line with the customs of the country they are in.

This

I wish the world would stop being so preoccupied with what women wear!

cupcaske123 · 30/07/2024 12:40

Wear an eye mask.

Moier · 30/07/2024 12:40

Seriously?
You need to educate your sons about bodies .My Grandsons from being young to now teenagers don't bat an eyelid.
That's how they have been brought up.( You have a problem with your sons and DH ..NOT the topless women.

I go abroad a lot.. have a villa in The Canaries and l can say now there is a lot of British women who sunbath topless.. I did from being 17 ( don't now because I'm 66 and don't have the figure) but l do round my own private villa and pool).

purplecorkheart · 30/07/2024 12:41

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:34

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

AIBU?

Certain European countries. Are you holidaying in one of them?

Dozycuntlaters · 30/07/2024 12:41

Jesus, unclench dude. They're just boobs. Asking if they have no sense of right or wrong is just utterly ridiculous. I am sure your DH and teenage sons can cope with seeing a woman with her breasts out and if they cant, well that says more about them than the topless women.

ElaineMBenes · 30/07/2024 12:41

Seaglassandchampagne · 30/07/2024 12:39

They're literally just breasts, there is no need for drama. You can choose not to stare if they bother you.

You can also use it as an opportunity to teach your sons 1) not to ogle women and 2) that different parts of the world have different customs and attitudes to nudity, and that if it offends you it is your responsibility to only travel to places where the prevailing attitude is line with your own, rather than making sweeping and judgmental statements about people behaving in line with the customs of the country they are in.

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