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To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!

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TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:34

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

AIBU?

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Izzymoon · 30/07/2024 13:02

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:42

Oh interesting

so you’d like a 50yo male getting his bits out near a 5yo?
Would you be educating the toddler ?

The 50y old male would have exactly the same amount out as the women.

MissMoneyFairy · 30/07/2024 13:02

cupcaske123 · 30/07/2024 13:00

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Are they wearing thong bottoms with their botty cheekies on display too

Sdpbody · 30/07/2024 13:03

Speak for yourself. I love boobs and I love seeing them. I am a women.

Putting · 30/07/2024 13:03

5318008

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Ellie56 · 30/07/2024 13:03

MissMoneyFairy · 30/07/2024 13:02

Are they wearing thong bottoms with their botty cheekies on display too

Grin
summer555 · 30/07/2024 13:03

I don't tend to go topless because mine are less perky melons and more tiny fried eggs. But they don't offend me, nor would I expect my sons to be freaked out by them.

Personally I'd rather see someone's boobs than the tiny bikini bottoms that don't really cover your pubes without a lot of shaving accompanied by the weird wedgie up the bottom at the back. But I accept that's my opinion and women should feel free to wear what they choose.

K0OLA1D · 30/07/2024 13:04

Izzymoon · 30/07/2024 13:02

The 50y old male would have exactly the same amount out as the women.

Exactly this.

God people need to unclench

ShuviTupya · 30/07/2024 13:04

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RisingSunn · 30/07/2024 13:04

Im with you OP. I wouldn’t want a man walking with his private parts in full view either.

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 13:05

Yes love those comments! And I bet you’d all be ok with your 17yo taking boobs out in front of family or friends in a holiday

if you say yes then absolute bullocks! I don’t believe any of you who parent teenage girls !

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SallyWD · 30/07/2024 13:05

Loads of British women go topless too OP!

Putting · 30/07/2024 13:06

RisingSunn · 30/07/2024 13:04

Im with you OP. I wouldn’t want a man walking with his private parts in full view either.

So you’d expect men to be walking around in a T-shirt or bikini top the whole time? Topless women aren’t showing any more than a man typically would.

LBFseBrom · 30/07/2024 13:06

That has been going on since the 1980s, not at all unusual. I can't believe you haven't come across it before. I first saw it on holiday around 1985 after which it became the norm and I barely noticed. Mothers with children go topless on the beach on holiday, and in swimming pools at resorts. There's nothing wrong with it, most people know what boobs look like nowadays.

Burntout101 · 30/07/2024 13:06

longdistanceclaraclara · 30/07/2024 12:39

We're in Spain, have to walk past the nudist beach to get to the family beach. Half mast todgers have led
To some interesting discussions with the kids...

Half mast ? Eugh

weebarra · 30/07/2024 13:06

I'm just jealous as I had a double mastectomy and I'd love my tits back.
No one would go into the office with their tits out, or walk down the street.
I was recently in a 'certain European country' and lots of women were topless. Yes my teen DSs were probably slightly uncomfortable, but thats because we're British and very repressed when it comes to nudity. Which I told them!

piefacedClique · 30/07/2024 13:06

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Grow up! It’s completely natural! 50% of the world have them! Significantly more if your include the moobs on display at our beach! I’d rather my teenage son saw natural ones there than think the fake plastic ones on tv are what all women have!?

ItsAlrightDarling · 30/07/2024 13:06

RisingSunn · 30/07/2024 13:04

Im with you OP. I wouldn’t want a man walking with his private parts in full view either.

She didn’t say the women had their genitals out though? Just their boobs. Men have their chests out all the time 🤷🏻‍♀️

MonsteraMama · 30/07/2024 13:06

I found it very liberating on holiday in Spain this year to be able to unleash the boobs. They very much enjoyed getting a bit of sun for a change.

Whack your iced gems out too OP, you might find you enjoy it. When in Rome and all that.

sunsetsandboardwalks · 30/07/2024 13:07

What's so offensive about titties 😂

JennySayQuoi · 30/07/2024 13:07

@FluentRubyDog

"I'm not even remotely prone to going topless, but I'm sure you'll find a jewellery maker able to fix those pearls that you sent flying with all the clutching."

Pearl Stringer here, happy to help! Been topless on European beaches many times, never realised I could have been creating lucrative business for myself!

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 13:07

SallyWD · 30/07/2024 13:05

Loads of British women go topless too OP!

sure
the ones I am referring to here are not British , all Northern Europe

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SilverBranchGoldenPears · 30/07/2024 13:07

The indignation is almost tangible!

Hilarious if it weren’t so embarrassing. I hope the Europeans don’t paint your whole family with the Hyacinth Bucket brush. (I live in EU and everyone finds British ideas of decency round here hilarious).

PenguinTime · 30/07/2024 13:07

I went topless for the first time on holiday in May and it was quite liberating. Have you considered it? It might help you unclench.

PurpleFlower1983 · 30/07/2024 13:07

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:56

It’s not about DH or DS as much

I don’t want to see someone’s private parts!

they might not be genitals but they’re are private!

whoever is saying this is normal and I am making it more sexualised than it should be, then apologies you’re nuts!

Go take your boobs out next time your kid has a play date … let’s see how this will go down!

Like many women do for breastfeeding you mean? Or are you opposed to that too?

Is this your first time on a foreign beach OP?

Catza · 30/07/2024 13:07

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 13:05

Yes love those comments! And I bet you’d all be ok with your 17yo taking boobs out in front of family or friends in a holiday

if you say yes then absolute bullocks! I don’t believe any of you who parent teenage girls !

You still haven't answered if your teenage sons are currently wearing t-shirts on the beach.

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