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To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!

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TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:34

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

AIBU?

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Ellie56 · 30/07/2024 12:51

I take it you're not on holiday in the UK @TittiesOutPutThemBack ?

KreedKafer · 30/07/2024 12:51

Oh, grow up.

MissMoneyFairy · 30/07/2024 12:52

Stop being so dramatic, which country is this outrageous crime happening in.

AllyCart · 30/07/2024 12:52

Moier · 30/07/2024 12:40

Seriously?
You need to educate your sons about bodies .My Grandsons from being young to now teenagers don't bat an eyelid.
That's how they have been brought up.( You have a problem with your sons and DH ..NOT the topless women.

I go abroad a lot.. have a villa in The Canaries and l can say now there is a lot of British women who sunbath topless.. I did from being 17 ( don't now because I'm 66 and don't have the figure) but l do round my own private villa and pool).

You have a problem with your sons and DH ..NOT the topless women

What have they done wrong???

Bluebirdover · 30/07/2024 12:52

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:38

How can I not look? They are not far from me!

there are not many t**s on the streets , why are they right there on the beach?

it’s not a nudist beach there are tens of families around how is that normal?

You can say tits

brunettemic · 30/07/2024 12:52

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:34

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

AIBU?

“It’s obvious they’re from certain European countries”…so they’re doing what is deemed normal and perfectly acceptable to them. Get a grip. And as for not wanting to your husband to see them, what do you think is going to happen if he does…stand there and have a w*nk on the beach, run off with one of these topless lunatics…!?

Combattingthemoaners · 30/07/2024 12:52

silverhamster · 30/07/2024 12:47

I think all the women saying 'they are just boobs' or 'it's just a random normal body part' are straight, and have no idea how alluring most naked boobs actually are to those attracted to women.

I grew up being taken to naturist beaches so it was normal to me. Still alluring.

Very uncomfortable as I approached teen years.

Topless men on the other hand - absolutely gross, nobody needs to see that. Put a shirt on!

I’m gay. I could not care less if a random woman has her boobs out on the beach. I certainly wouldn’t be staring as I have more respect for women than that. Not everyone who is attracted to women objectifies their bodies like they are a piece of meat.

FluentRubyDog · 30/07/2024 12:52

Here, I couldn't resist. And before you have another hissy fit, it's from breast cancer breast care site. Which would be a hell of a lot more effective if people stopped sexualising breasts. Hope that gives you a hint.

To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!
BetterTheDevlinYouKnow · 30/07/2024 12:53

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries
Really? How do you know?
Have you been stomping around the sandcastles demanding Papers ?

LiterallyOnFire · 30/07/2024 12:53

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:48

They can take them out all they want

my Issue is where they are doing it
i am sure there are nudists areas where I am, there are definitely some more isolated areas

wtf does this happen in a very public and full of families area

they don’t need to do this to prove a point, and I don’t need to accept it. Breasts are private otherwise we d all take them out in the office too!

I don’t want to see someone else private bits !

They're not doing it to "prove a point".

Where is this beach anyway?

RosesAndHellebores · 30/07/2024 12:53

Top less sunbathing is not the same as nude sunbathing.

@TittiesOutPutThemBack I am sorry you have an issue with women's breasts and may be projecting this onto your children.

The only tits I've seen lately have been in the garden - the finch variety. Such pretty little things and I love watching them.

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 30/07/2024 12:54

Titties, said no woman ever. Avert your mind, you grubby beggar.

HappierTimesAhead · 30/07/2024 12:54

BetterTheDevlinYouKnow · 30/07/2024 12:53

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries
Really? How do you know?
Have you been stomping around the sandcastles demanding Papers ?

😂

iwasashowgirl · 30/07/2024 12:54

Bluebirdover · 30/07/2024 12:52

You can say tits

But not titties. Please god 😂

Bluebirdover · 30/07/2024 12:54

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:42

Oh interesting

so you’d like a 50yo male getting his bits out near a 5yo?
Would you be educating the toddler ?

By bits I presume you mean his dick?

Slight different to tits?

VerySadCase · 30/07/2024 12:55

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:48

They can take them out all they want

my Issue is where they are doing it
i am sure there are nudists areas where I am, there are definitely some more isolated areas

wtf does this happen in a very public and full of families area

they don’t need to do this to prove a point, and I don’t need to accept it. Breasts are private otherwise we d all take them out in the office too!

I don’t want to see someone else private bits !

Presumably it is considered to be legal and socially acceptable wherever you are on holiday, because there are so many people doing it.

So if you don't want to see it, the solution is to go to a different country where this is not legal and/or avoid going to the beach altogether.

Unfortunately for you, you not wanting to "accept it" has no bearing on the rights of these women to do whatever they choose. Of course, if you have made a point of choosing a country where it is illegal for women to go topless on the beach, by all means, report the matter to the relevant authorities and I'm sure that appropriate action will be taken.

LemonPeonies · 30/07/2024 12:55

Why don't you want your DH to look at them, are they nicer than yours? 🤣

iwasashowgirl · 30/07/2024 12:55

Bluebirdover · 30/07/2024 12:54

By bits I presume you mean his dick?

Slight different to tits?

Bitties and titties? 😂

Dozycuntlaters · 30/07/2024 12:55

I don’t want to see someone else private bits !

Well next time you book a holiday go somewhere else where it is not deemed acceptable.

When I was a kid we holidayed in France and Spain a lot. Loads of topless women, including my mum. Us kids didn't bat an eyelid, it was just the done thing. How wonderful women have the right to go topless on the beach, the same as the men can, theres nothing wrong with it all so just enjoy your holiday and stop being such a prude.

Astrabees · 30/07/2024 12:55

Topless sunbathing is very common in Europe, though sadly not as common as it used to be. Prudery of people like the OP inhibits others, though I will continue the practice because there is no feeling like the freedom of being as unclothed as you can. I thought the days of pearl clutching on this issue ended in 1959.

ChampagneLassie · 30/07/2024 12:55

🤣🤣🤣🤣if it’s that important to you, you should stick to places it’s not ok like the Middle East! One of the joys of many European countries is that they are more relaxed about this sort of thing. I’m sure your DH and teen boys aren’t complaining!

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:56

It’s not about DH or DS as much

I don’t want to see someone’s private parts!

they might not be genitals but they’re are private!

whoever is saying this is normal and I am making it more sexualised than it should be, then apologies you’re nuts!

Go take your boobs out next time your kid has a play date … let’s see how this will go down!

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BeEasyonYourself · 30/07/2024 12:56

XenoBitch · 30/07/2024 12:36

They are just tits.
I bet there are men on the beach with moobs bigger than some of the women.

My husband has farrrr bigger moobs than my boobs 😅

I've lived in various European countries and really can't get worked up about tits being out. I was mildly shocked at accidentally walking through the nudist part of the beach in Portugal though and seeing lots of elderly/middle aged German men playing frisbee (genitalia out and bouncing 😄) when I was 14.

Bluebirdover · 30/07/2024 12:56

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:56

It’s not about DH or DS as much

I don’t want to see someone’s private parts!

they might not be genitals but they’re are private!

whoever is saying this is normal and I am making it more sexualised than it should be, then apologies you’re nuts!

Go take your boobs out next time your kid has a play date … let’s see how this will go down!

You're quite odd!

XenoBitch · 30/07/2024 12:57

GauntJudy · 30/07/2024 12:45

My brain is now singing "I wanna see tits on the beach", to the classic t'spoon tune of "I wanna have sex on the beach"

They're just boobs OP, sooner we stop sexualising them the better.

😂

I wanna see tits on the beach
Come on, show your body
Tits on the beach

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