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AIBU?

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To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!

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TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:34

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

AIBU?

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Bumblebeestiltskin · 30/07/2024 12:42

I'm from the UK. And sunbathe topless. And I have massive ones.

This is definitely your problem, have you thought about therapy?

AltitudeCheck · 30/07/2024 12:42

Time to teach your sons not to oggle strangers bodies!

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:42

Oh interesting

so you’d like a 50yo male getting his bits out near a 5yo?
Would you be educating the toddler ?

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XenoBitch · 30/07/2024 12:42

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:42

Oh interesting

so you’d like a 50yo male getting his bits out near a 5yo?
Would you be educating the toddler ?

Breasts are not genitals.

Octavia64 · 30/07/2024 12:42

Don't go to Denmark.

They all go naked there.

StormingNorman · 30/07/2024 12:43

Your should try it.

norasand · 30/07/2024 12:43

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:42

Oh interesting

so you’d like a 50yo male getting his bits out near a 5yo?
Would you be educating the toddler ?

No. And I don't want to see vulvas on display either. Breasts are not genitals though!

AllThePotatoesAreSinging · 30/07/2024 12:43

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:42

Oh interesting

so you’d like a 50yo male getting his bits out near a 5yo?
Would you be educating the toddler ?

That’s in no way the same. Everyone disagrees with you. You can delete the thread now.

Timinfuckingruislip · 30/07/2024 12:43

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:38

How can I not look? They are not far from me!

there are not many t**s on the streets , why are they right there on the beach?

it’s not a nudist beach there are tens of families around how is that normal?

It’s normal because it’s normal - have you never been abroad before?

Seaglassandchampagne · 30/07/2024 12:43

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:42

Oh interesting

so you’d like a 50yo male getting his bits out near a 5yo?
Would you be educating the toddler ?

Why, do the women you're complaining about also have their vulvas on display? Because that is the equivalent of a penis, not breasts.

Stormyseasallround · 30/07/2024 12:44

Perhaps some sun on your breasts would make you a bit less uptight. Honestly, it’s just the human body. I’ll guarantee that your husband and teenage sons watch porn and see loads of them.

Bumblebeestiltskin · 30/07/2024 12:44

That's an irrelevant comparison. Breasts are not genitals.

Topseyt123 · 30/07/2024 12:44

Wear a blindfold then, or simply don't look.

Do you also object to topless men, or just topless women? Why should it be any different?

ExtraOnions · 30/07/2024 12:44

Blackpool … unusual
Benidorm .. not so much

they are just breast .. wish I was brave enough (not in Blackpool though, even on a nice day it would freeze your nips off)

Americano75 · 30/07/2024 12:44

'Titties'?

Are we on a sissy porn site now?

Dearg · 30/07/2024 12:45

In what way is a man ‘getting his bits’ out , equivalent to a woman’s bare breasts?

Seems like you are over-sexualising the breasts. This is a you issue.

C1N1C · 30/07/2024 12:45

I'm sure men won't complain about the liberalism... funny that women are.

GauntJudy · 30/07/2024 12:45

My brain is now singing "I wanna see tits on the beach", to the classic t'spoon tune of "I wanna have sex on the beach"

They're just boobs OP, sooner we stop sexualising them the better.

Dozycuntlaters · 30/07/2024 12:45

Oh interesting

so you’d like a 50yo male getting his bits out near a 5yo?
Would you be educating the toddler ?

What on earth has that got to do with seeing women topless on a beach? You being ridiculous now, calm down and give your head a wobble.

Iasonnas · 30/07/2024 12:46

I'm sick of people not wearing blindfolds at the beach.

Hobbesmanc · 30/07/2024 12:46

In my experience there's a lot less topless sunbathing by the pools and the beach than there used to be. As a kid back in the seventies when we did package trips to Spain, it seemed more prevalent. And every holiday programme always had a gratuitous boob shot.

Surely after the initial inevitable snigger, kids just get on with enjoying the beach.

Catza · 30/07/2024 12:46

Are your son and husband wearing t-shirts to cover their nipples on the beach? If yes, ok.. I accept your premise that you like people to cover up and you should go to countries where it is customary. Saudi Arabia?
Otherwise, female breast have as much right to be on display as male ones. And newsflash, your teenager will be far more interested in female breasts is you teach him to sexualise them by your own attitude. Funny that, isn't it?

FluentRubyDog · 30/07/2024 12:46

Anybody else having a suspicion of breast envy by the OP? 🤭🤭🤭

HappierTimesAhead · 30/07/2024 12:46

Urgh, you are so very unreasonable.

Just get over it! You are not complaining about men having their chest out!

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 30/07/2024 12:47

Your kids won't be scarred by seeing breasts. Get a grip.

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