I'm a MILF apparently...

[JustAnotherIdiotAgain]

Just seen a WhatsApp chat (showed to me by DP) where I have been referred to by one of his friends as a MILF.... I'm fucking fuming. Trying not to overreact but the bloody cheek...
Personally I find this dismissive and insulting but didn't think I would be quite this angry. Happy to be told I'm overreacting but not sure I can let this slide!

yep!

Yep! My ex worked in the home office - also played rugby. Dont ever boil a kettle in a travel lodge.

Men do not behave well at all.

I couldn't be bothered to get upset about this personally.

I know it’s inappropriate and demeaning but as I sit here with my frizzy hair and bags under my eyes from being woken at 5 ..I have to admit I’d be secretly flattered to be referred to as a milf

Yer, I'm not buying it.

Your reaction is so overblown and dramatic, it's like you're protesting too much.

Humble brag for sure.

I agree - but it’s actually a interesting discussion on men’s behaviour away from women’s eyes

Yep sounds like a humble brag for sure!

Well, I mean, it's not like a group of braying women have ever perved over a young muscular hunk now, is it?

😂 Seriously @JustAnotherIdiotAgain You got upset about this?!

How do you cope with life, seriously! It's legit just banter, and it means he thinks you're smokin' hot.

A few grips are needed! 😆

(A few grips are needed for a few others on here too, who are sooooo offended by this!) And as a few posters have said, any woman who thinks her DH/partner isn't like this, and doesn't partake in banter that includes objectifying women, (even occasionally!) is deluded. Every single man has some sexism and misogynism in their blood. Yes, even yours!

Fuming? 🤣🤣 it's lads chat they always say crap like that. Plus it's a compliment. You are defo over reacting to this.....🙄🤦🏼‍♀️ why would your DP even tell you/show you ffs drama drama

It’s a bit unsavoury but ‘milf’ is generally used interchangeably with ‘fit’ or, if that doesn’t suit you, attractive, so I don’t think it’s something to get in a tizz about.

I'd just laugh. Get over yourself!

So a guy who OP says doesn't even know her says he wants to Fuck her. And you would be happy to have some random guy who doesn't know you say he wants to Fuck you?
And that's not reducing women just to sex objects?

I thought it was only teen-aged boys who identified MILFs
If it's your DPs mates saying that, it's a different thing altogether; and wtf - your DP accepted a mate saying that he's like to fuck you and he didn't react?
You have a serious DP issue

Could DH not just message th guy directly to tell him off? No need for a public shaming but good to challenge it.

LOL 😆 'A SERIOUS DP issue?!' How do some women on here manage to sustain a relationship with a man for more than 5 minutes?! I bet any man they are with have learned to say nothing - EVER, and just keep quiet to keep their wifey happy.

Calling a woman a MILF just means he thinks she's attractive, and fanciable. A man called my 20-something daughter a MILF the other week, (he was a friend of her friend,) and my daughter is not even a mother! (AND she is only in her mid 20s. And he was 33!)

It's just a daft saying to say they think a woman is attractive. Some people here must have little lines developing over their top lip with the cats-bum-mouth they must be displaying right now. 😂

Bet you feel real edgy with your smug attitude.

LOL

you have some very odd values

Hahah! I'm not talking about my little prince, whoever that is. I'm saying there are certain types of men who wouldn't do this. I'm talking about some creative and artsy types, men who are deeply empathetic, or some of the guys I work in tech who I just KNOW are not into this shit.
If we're talking about blokes who are in anyway laddy, testosterony, competiive, then yes, I absolutely believe that they will do this shit behind your back no matter what they say. Not all men are like that though. And I'm sorry for you if you don't know any.

Cats bum mouth 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I'm so saddened by all these women only knowing such shit men that they think this is an inevitability! You really need to hang out with better men.

Just because something is normalised, doesn’t make it ok.

Some certainly do. I suspect you're one of them. Men of better quality don't, and those are the ones any discerning woman will be interested in.