Will I throw this one back ... social media activity

[gona]

I'm chatting to a man on WhatsApp. Busy schedules have not all owed us to meet for the last couple of weeks but we have plans for next week to meet up.
Before I meet any date I do my best to find out as much about
then as I can via people and sm.

He is as true as his word regarding his plans and commitments and I can see this via social media.

I have been catfished once and if I had done my research on others I would have saved my self a lot of stress. This is why I do this.

This man has given me no reason to believe he isn't who he says he s but I had a look on his socials.

They are chock full of sports, footie, current affairs reposts. Nothing sinister but there are, out of hundreds of likes, a couple of posts/ photos of curvy women. Nothing very revealing or sexual, just women with large breasts. Possibly three likes photos out of hundreds.
Is this a red flag ? Would you throw him back?
I'm
Out of this scene for a very long time so appreciate your views. Thanks.

you must have spent hours on this OP

either way, no i wouldn’t meet him

but all those hours wasted op!

As a single man why would “liking” a photo of an attractive woman be a red flag?

Photos he’s posted or liked? If he’s like two or three out of hundreds it wouldn’t bother me. Not sure how you can see all his likes though. If it’s posts I’d be a bit wary.

Heterosexual man likes tits shocker.

Now I'm wondering about my "likes" pretty sure there's probably topless pics of footballers and actors that I would have clicked like on, I am single and didn't realise I'm a walking red flag cos of it.

No I haven't spent hours . I literally skimmed through them. These are all likes, not posts not commenter not reposts.
Just some likes.

You sound like the red flag!

2 or 3 likes of women with big busts and 100s of normal random things. No I wouldn't think they were red flags, in fact, his profile sounds positively tame.

You're the red flag here

sure you did

It’s normal male online behaviour, and therefore I’d avoid him. I’m so bored of men who think that just because everyone does it, it must be ok.

I'm the red flag because I want to see if I'm wasting my time with a sleaze/ creep/ weirdo / catfish before I meet him??
His is a public account.
But ok .

Agreed.

How can you see what photos he’s liked? I thought Facebook and instagram got rid of that ages ago. Unless you are keeping track of every post that comes up on your Facebook news feed

Fiona?

If being catfished in the past was the only reason you did this, you'd be content he's real and you wouldn't be posting here.

Who are the women in these posts, OP? I'm not asking you to name them, but I have liked posts of some singers and actresses I enjoy. If you looked at them you could probably describe some of them as curvy women. But that's a bit different to him going on to some "hot models daily" type page and clicking like just because of their breasts.

Which is no bad thing in isolation either I suppose, but if we got serious I wouldn't want our family and mutual friends seeing that on his social media.

Absolutely not. I think you seem quite intense, why would liking a picture of an attractive woman be a red flag? He's literally just expressed admiration for their publically posted picture.

How do you quickly and easily see someone’s likes on Social Media??

I'm not OP, but twitter profiles have a separate "likes" tab.

You're worried about him?
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You are massively overthinking this.

Yep I'd throw him back for that. To me it suggests he views women as objects not people. It's usually the tip of the iceberg of that behavior.

Just because something is normalised doesn't mean it's healthy.

It would give me strong indications that he views porn as well. Which would be a deal breaker for me. Its absolutely fine to have boundaries op even when they don't match up to others boundaries. We are all different.

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