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To be upset that my boyfriend left my bathroom like this

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Mummaof1boyx · 03/09/2023 22:59

After a face shave and chest shave

To be upset that my boyfriend left my bathroom like this
To be upset that my boyfriend left my bathroom like this
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Mummaof1boyx · 03/09/2023 23:01

From afar

To be upset that my boyfriend left my bathroom like this
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IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 03/09/2023 23:01

Upset? Maybe annoyed but I couldn't be upset.

wavws · 03/09/2023 23:01

Fucking disgusting

Hankunamatata · 03/09/2023 23:02

Ewww grim

Mummaof1boyx · 03/09/2023 23:02

He has implied I am over reacting and has shut the bathroom door and is begrudgingly cleaning it

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AutumnalPumpkin · 03/09/2023 23:03

I tell my fiancé if he shaves in the bathroom, he is not allowed to come back out until he's erased all evidence of it 😆

thistimelastweek · 03/09/2023 23:03

In between taking photos did you tell him to clean it up?
If not, you are being unreasonable.

Stratocumulus · 03/09/2023 23:04

Skid marks in the pan too?
Top off the toothpaste?
Toilet seat left up?
Towels on the floor?
If you have the ick now, brace yourself. There might be worse to come.
He needs a telling. If you wanna stay with him, his training starts now.

Mummaof1boyx · 03/09/2023 23:04

No, I’d half cleaned it up!

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Hopskiplou · 03/09/2023 23:04

God - I took a deep breath while those photos loaded, thought there was going to be something smeared…

what did he say when you asked him to run the tap?

atatotalloss4 · 03/09/2023 23:04

I'd be more annoyed my expensive neals yard body oil had been left like that on the floor! I use that one, it's my one treat, I feel inexplicably annoyed by it 🤣

Mummaof1boyx · 03/09/2023 23:04

Hopskiplou · 03/09/2023 23:04

God - I took a deep breath while those photos loaded, thought there was going to be something smeared…

what did he say when you asked him to run the tap?

Even the shower?!

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Viewfrommyhouse · 03/09/2023 23:05

Fucking gross. Who was he leaving it for?!?!

Guavafish1 · 03/09/2023 23:05

It's pretty grime, esp. the shower.

I'm glad you didn't let him get away with it or he would do it all the time. His reaction is pathetic, he should be ashamed.

Crinkle77 · 03/09/2023 23:05

Cheeky twat. I suggest you go to his place, shave your armpits legs and pubes, and don't clean it up. See what he says then.

HeadacheEarthquake · 03/09/2023 23:05

Could you shave your bikini line and leave his sink in a similar state?

Mummaof1boyx · 03/09/2023 23:06

HeadacheEarthquake · 03/09/2023 23:05

Could you shave your bikini line and leave his sink in a similar state?

According to him ‘I wouldn’t even notice myself if you hadn’t have said anything’

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Tilllly · 03/09/2023 23:07

Rank

DH does this occasionally

And is firmly reprimanded 😁

Mummaof1boyx · 03/09/2023 23:07

He got irritated when I asked if he could clean up

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AutumnFroglets · 03/09/2023 23:07

Mummaof1boyx · 03/09/2023 23:02

He has implied I am over reacting and has shut the bathroom door and is begrudgingly cleaning it

Well...he is cleaning it...but he did think it was acceptable to leave. Being begrudging about it could be embarrassment.

I guess it depends on how he reacts afterwards, angry and bitter or apologetic. But yeah I would have been upset.

Hopskiplou · 03/09/2023 23:07

LTB

HeadacheEarthquake · 03/09/2023 23:08

Then try it! If anything - leave some pubes and a makeup remover wipe used on his sink

If he doesn't notice it tells you all you need to know about his standards then you can try to train him or bin him off

Guavafish1 · 03/09/2023 23:08

Don't let him shave in your bathroom again.

MoorlandWanderer · 03/09/2023 23:09

That pic of the hairs plus the bottle and something else looks the worst.

Topped only by the fact that he has dragged his heels and moaned about it.

Yuk!!! Yuk to the state he left the sink in and yuk to the attitude.

MoorlandWanderer · 03/09/2023 23:10

What I mean about it looking the worse is the fact that he could leave all that random crap in the sink like a 3 year old, as well as all the hair.