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Original poster

That rugby player…in a scrum with a woman down an alleyway… wtf!

881 replies

GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 19:53

AIBU to be shocked someone would want to do this/have it done to them? I mean, the main offense is that he’s cheated on his poor wife, but also - is this a thing??? 🤢

OP posts:
Sucessinthenewyear · 15/02/2023 19:53

?

MissyB1 · 15/02/2023 19:54

Eh???

Pottedpalm · 15/02/2023 19:55

Eh?

Theunamedcat · 15/02/2023 19:55

The sex topic is -->

AnnoyedFromSlough · 15/02/2023 19:56

You might or might not be bring unreasonable. It's really difficult to tell.

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GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 19:56

Joe Westerman…

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Jimboscott0115 · 15/02/2023 19:56

Joe Westerman you mean?

Saw the video, other than the cheating element I have no idea what you mean?

Pearfacebananapoop · 15/02/2023 19:56

I can't bring myself to watch the video. I've heard about it. Yeah I hope it's not normal too!

kissthegirlshesnotbehindthedoor · 15/02/2023 19:57

Jimboscott0115 · 15/02/2023 19:56

Joe Westerman you mean?

Saw the video, other than the cheating element I have no idea what you mean?

Because he looks like he's licking her bum...

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 15/02/2023 19:57

That’s a bit of a random question surely?

No-one actually needs to ask “here, is it normal to get so pissed you end up in an alley down by Greggs, genitals exposed, rimming/being rimmed?”

I mean, no, it’s obviously not normal. Folks would be getting arrested left, right and centre if it as a regular occurrence.

Dijoduo · 15/02/2023 19:58

What do you mean “in a scrum”? You can’t even have a scrum with just two people and he’s a league player, his idea of an actual scrum is somewhat iffy anyway.

VladmirsPoutine · 15/02/2023 19:58

The OP isn't a perve. Basically a rugby player Letterman? Was filmed performing a sex act on a woman who is not his wife in an alley way. The woman in question was pretty much bending forward as to be touching her toes with rugby player crouched behind her. It's incredibly unbecoming and vulgar, and rightly the OP wonders outside of the cheating element what woman would really want to do something like that.

RudsyFarmer · 15/02/2023 19:58

I’ve been trying to find out what he did to the woman down the alleyway. What was the sec act? My brain has tied itself in knots trying to imagine cunniligus down an alleyway. It has to be something else!

FawnFrenchieMum · 15/02/2023 20:00

Pretty sure someone literally asked on the sex forum a week or two ago who likes rimming / being rimmed.

Seriously feel sorry for his wife and children. They have a 15 year old DD, imagine the grief she is getting at school. Just awful.

Original poster
GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 20:00

Scrum was being used in a tongue in cheek manner…. literally.

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stbrandonsboat · 15/02/2023 20:00

It sounds like something stray dogs would do.

RudsyFarmer · 15/02/2023 20:01

Omg he was rimming her!!!! How the hell is he ever going to live this down. It was also his friend’s wife apparently 😯

FawnFrenchieMum · 15/02/2023 20:02

RudsyFarmer · 15/02/2023 20:01

Omg he was rimming her!!!! How the hell is he ever going to live this down. It was also his friend’s wife apparently 😯

Yes with his pant round his ankles and knob totally out

PleaseJustText · 15/02/2023 20:03

Well being honest... I quite enjoy a bit of rimming. Not in public, down an alleyway mind you!

ILoveCreamCrackersMe · 15/02/2023 20:03

It was his friends wife allegedly.

The tramp stamp on her back was the final insult. Classy couple.

stbrandonsboat · 15/02/2023 20:04

E Coli 🤢

RudsyFarmer · 15/02/2023 20:04

FawnFrenchieMum · 15/02/2023 20:02

Yes with his pant round his ankles and knob totally out

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Omg. Where is this video?

gelatogina · 15/02/2023 20:04

And she is on her hands and knees on the cobbles with her dress up round her waist.

imagine your partners and children, all your friends watching that. I really don’t think I could live down the shame.

FawnFrenchieMum · 15/02/2023 20:04

RudsyFarmer · 15/02/2023 20:04

Omg. Where is this video?

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It was all over Twitter, I think it’s been taken down now.

JellyMouse · 15/02/2023 20:05

Ok in the privacy of one’s home maybe but not on a public footpath. I have unfortunately seen a pervert wanking in public before but never seen this! It’s actually a criminal act.