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That rugby player…in a scrum with a woman down an alleyway… wtf!

881 replies

GoingOnce · 15/02/2023 19:53

AIBU to be shocked someone would want to do this/have it done to them? I mean, the main offense is that he’s cheated on his poor wife, but also - is this a thing??? 🤢

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BadNomad · 19/02/2023 15:22

They probably started near the street then moved to the back when people spotted them. For privacy.

Frangipanitime · 19/02/2023 15:53

BadNomad · 19/02/2023 15:22

They probably started near the street then moved to the back when people spotted them. For privacy.

For privacy. 😂😂😂

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 19/02/2023 17:02

Florenz · 18/02/2023 23:36

Have his team played a game today? What was the crowd reaction?

He got calls of dirty bastard and got jeers when he was replaced at the game apparently. But he's all smiles in the photos, no indication of remorse at all.

MrWhippersnapper · 19/02/2023 17:13

Bravado

AlwaysGoingBackwards · 19/02/2023 17:13

Why hasn’t the woman been named in the media?
I’m not saying she should be; I’m just surprised.

KattyKattyKatz · 19/02/2023 17:16

AlwaysGoingBackwards · 19/02/2023 17:13

Why hasn’t the woman been named in the media?
I’m not saying she should be; I’m just surprised.

Because she can't be identified in the video her face is hidden . So the press cannot be 100% sure that it is who people are allegedly saying she is .

AlwaysGoingBackwards · 19/02/2023 17:23

KattyKattyKatz · 19/02/2023 17:16

Because she can't be identified in the video her face is hidden . So the press cannot be 100% sure that it is who people are allegedly saying she is .

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How can it only be allegedly if her employer has sacked her and local people know who she is?

ImAvingOops · 19/02/2023 18:01

Estate Agents don't have a reputation for being particularly ethical! I honestly can't see how it hinders her ability to do her job. I understand the employer won't want the notoriety but in all honesty I can't see people refusing to deal with her from a moral standpoint.
When I've bought or sold a house I've only cared about how my house is marketed and the sale managed, not the personal doings of the agent involved.

KattyKattyKatz · 19/02/2023 18:15

Alwaysgoingbackwards

It's from the press point of view . The have to be 100% sure or be sued for £££££ . I would imagine they were out with a group of people who knew them both and that's how it got filmed and her name spread around .

Florenz · 19/02/2023 18:15

Did the opposition team today imitate the rimming as a celebration when they scored a try?

sweeneytoddsrazor · 19/02/2023 18:18

It may not hinder her ability to do the job as such, but there will be people who don't want her in their house for all sorts of weird and wonderful reasons. There is also a possibility that she could turn up to a house valuation to find some weirdo, sex pervert, rapist who thinks she is up for anything so her personal safety is at risk.

BadNomad · 19/02/2023 18:23

Plus, technically what they did was a sexual offence. Indecent exposure. No business wants that.

HairyToity · 19/02/2023 19:05

Where are you all seeing these videos? I'm nosy.😆

MrWhippersnapper · 19/02/2023 19:13

Tattle

Frangipanitime · 19/02/2023 19:42

HairyToity · 19/02/2023 19:05

Where are you all seeing these videos? I'm nosy.😆

Twitter,

Bippetyboppityboob · 19/02/2023 19:44

Generally if there's any sort of video going round that shouldn't be it can be found on twitter.

Frangipanitime · 19/02/2023 19:45

ImAvingOops · 19/02/2023 18:01

Estate Agents don't have a reputation for being particularly ethical! I honestly can't see how it hinders her ability to do her job. I understand the employer won't want the notoriety but in all honesty I can't see people refusing to deal with her from a moral standpoint.
When I've bought or sold a house I've only cared about how my house is marketed and the sale managed, not the personal doings of the agent involved.

youre a better person than me, I’d not have it, I don’t want someone who has sex in public with their spouses friend, exposes her genitalia,, as my agent. I respect you’re good with it, but I’m not. I’d pick another agency.

Darcy86 · 19/02/2023 19:49

ThePollutedShadesOfPemberley · 19/02/2023 13:37

I disagree with this. The rimmer caught the bacteria from the rimmee. He then had the infection himself that he passed on to the next woman.

I caught Ecoli from a coffee mug that had been inadequately washed after a dog had drunk from it at a previous workplace. We took samples from the dog to discover it had subclinical Ecoli.

I have never been as ill before or since.

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"Rimmee" has just sent me sideways 😂😂😂

ImAvingOops · 19/02/2023 20:22

@Frangipanitime don't get me wrong, I definitely wouldn't want her as a friend.Or doing a job where she was expected to set a good example to other people. But estate agent isn't really in that category. T just doesn't sit right with me that she's sacked and he isn't, when he's the reason this is all over the internet in the first place

Florenz · 19/02/2023 20:23

They are both equally responsible. He just has a job where he isn't going to be sacked for something like this whereas she didn't.

BadNomad · 19/02/2023 20:26

He might yet. The manager is getting a lot of criticism for letting him play today. It's making the team look bad.

Frangipanitime · 19/02/2023 20:31

ImAvingOops · 19/02/2023 20:22

@Frangipanitime don't get me wrong, I definitely wouldn't want her as a friend.Or doing a job where she was expected to set a good example to other people. But estate agent isn't really in that category. T just doesn't sit right with me that she's sacked and he isn't, when he's the reason this is all over the internet in the first place

Different industries different standards. It’s that simple. Client facing is very different to team sports person. Nothing to do with gender. Just their roles. And as much as you’d shake her hand and be ok with it. Many wouldn’t.

I wouldn’t. Male or female. Nope. I wouldn’t pay for it to be showing my house and negotiating for me. Becayde that’s some shit poor judgement in those videos. I don’t want someone selling my house who does this type of stuff, indecent exposure, public sex, public adultary.

ImAvingOops · 19/02/2023 20:53

You don't get more public facing than on a sports team though. And that's something people take their kids to. Sports stars are the 'face' of their club and their town.

I agree that their behaviour shows appalling judgement. But it was appalling judgement to film and distribute it. And I think consequences should be equal for both parties.

Florenz · 19/02/2023 21:10

If he got fired though another team would just sign him.

Florenz · 19/02/2023 21:10

And at the end of the day, him getting caught doing this doesn't impact on his ability to play rugby whereas her getting caught doing this DOES impact on her ability to sell houses.

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