Partners friend sending inappropriate images

[lucie333]

So me and my partner have got 2 boys together. 3 & 9 months. I'm very hurt by what I've just seen. My iPad was connected to his fb messenger app and when I was watching a film I seen that his friend had sent what I thought was me 14 photos on fb messenger so I clicked on them! It was 14 images of women from our town ( naked) no idea why he has them as he has a girl friend himself! He's out with him now obviously thinking about it. Am I being dramatic thinking I need to leave this relationship?

So your partners friend sent your partner nude pictures of women?

@savethatkitty yes

And they are women you know?

Yes. Roughly same age

So did you mean that your partner is out with the friend who sent these right now?
If so that’s even more weird.
Are you happy with your partner? Is there trust?

Can you ask him when he gets home?

Why are there so many ‘naked’ photos of women you know?
Thats unusual surely?

How can he have so many pictures of women you know? Has he dated all of them? Were these images taken with their knowledge and consent? Does he have consent for sharing them (probably not let's be honest). I would be looking through your DP's phone to see if he's received other images in the past. I doubt your partners friend sent them out of the blue. It seems more likely that they are looking at the photos together and having a laugh and your DP asked for them to be sent to him. Sounds pretty bad OP. I'd be worried and have the major ick.

Yes he's out with him just now. It's not the first time something like this has happened! I feel like an idiot. No I'm not happy but I wouldn't say that's all his fault, I trust him physically not to cheat, but when he does things like this it makes me sad, makes me question why im not good enough, he knows im very self conscious. When he does things like this I don't want him to touch me sexually. It really affects my mental health

He's shagging about wherever he gets the chance. None of it is your fault

If YOU read the thread correctly! You would have realised I was on MY iPad that was logged into his messenger! I obviously didn't know it was his messenger as it was MY iPad it wasn't until I opened the message! If your ok with your husband doing things like that that's ok! Don't be rude and read half a thread!

Grim, gross.. not for me.

Ring him up, tell him to get his arse up the road and explain what the fuck is going on!
If it was porn, my first thought would be how self conscious I am, maybe, but local women I know? I’d jump to how many laws have been broken and these poor women need to know.

@MosaicMon your post is incredibly fucked up, please tell me you realise that?

@MosaicMon weirdo

Wtf??

This that person a troll? What the hell?

OP, please ignore that idiot. Their post was…….strange to say the least 🙈

You need to talk to your DP about this tomorrow, maybe the friend is a weirdo and sent them without your partner knowing? You need to ask him

I wouldn’t be happy at all. I’d tell the gf of this friend, I’d have it out with my partner, and I’d be sending messages to all these women to see if they know their personal photos are being passed around like this.

If that's really your DP then absolutely LTB

Wow, you sound lovely 🙈