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To be proud of my son for standing up to his bully?

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Spreeofthemoment · 30/11/2022 17:09

My DS is in y6. One boy in particular has been making his(and a few others) life hell he’s it wanted to go to school because of him. Well today, he snapped and floored this boy after he came and pushed DS over(he’s always pushing him!). This boys nose was bleeding. I got a call off the head and told him I won’t be punishing my son and that I’m proud of him for standing up for himself and showing this boy he won’t be bullied anymore, as clearly the school weren’t doing anything to protect my son!

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AlarmClockMeetWindow · 04/12/2022 03:13

That sounds really lovely. I wish more schools were like that. I've been disappointed to find now that I have DC that in some cases things do not appear to have changed much in terms of how this issue is dealt with, since the 90s.

It sounds as though the children at your school are in a very nurturing environment. Smile I wish it was the case everywhere. Sad

AlarmClockMeetWindow · 04/12/2022 03:15

Perhaps smaller schools are better at this. Thinking back, the larger the school was, the less seemed to be done about it.

ComaCat · 09/12/2022 18:18

Damn, he kicked they ass.
Your kid deserves a trip to McDonalds

Newusername3kidss · 09/12/2022 18:30

MolesOnPoles · 30/11/2022 17:14

No, I’d be ashamed if my son used violence.

Oh shut up.

Good for your son OP! Bullies are scum and only pick on those who they perceive to be weak .

TruckerBarbie · 09/12/2022 21:43

If I had a son I'd be sending him to boxing lessons.

user1471554720 · 09/12/2022 21:54

TicketToParadise what a smug post.

How do you 'stand up to bullies'.

I tried to stand up to them from time to time and it made things worse. Well done to the boy. I would have loved to give people a good slap. I just stood up for myself with words which didn't work. It turned into a screaming match with them screaming in my face even though i said my piece calmly.

Hellsmovie · 10/12/2022 11:37

TruckerBarbie · 09/12/2022 21:43

If I had a son I'd be sending him to boxing lessons.

Why only if you have a son?

zingally · 10/12/2022 13:17

Well done your lad OP! Fair play. Bullies get what they deserve, and perhaps a bloody nose a bit more often would do them some good!

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