Swinging with married man

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Not a troll or reporter, I promise, name changed for this as it's very personal!

I am married and DH and I are considering swinging with an ex of mine. No issues with the fact that he's an ex - it was short lived - great sex but not relationship material.

I know he's into swinging and and engaged in multiple situations where he has met people for casual sex / swinging. Issue is, he's married with 2 kids and his wife doesn't know.

Would this put you off meeting him? Or would you think, he's doing this anyway, it's up to him?

Hard hat on....

I am as into this as DH is, I just want to make sure we are all ok.

All? Well, you, your DH, and the ex.

Not the ex’s oblivious wife though. Never mind whether she is ok.

I have no issue at all with people swinging, if everyone involved is consenting and keeping themselves safe. But being complicit in someone’s infidelity? Nah, that’s just grim.

I can’t believe the 🤮of this, even as an idea.