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Random men carrying tampons is weird

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Ikeasucks · 06/08/2022 19:15

Just seen a conversation on twitter with men talking about carrying tampons and pads to be helpful if they come across some woman who might need one. I thought it was weird - or am i the weird one?

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Badgirlriri · 06/08/2022 19:15

I’d cringe if any men I knew did this!

Jibbajabba1 · 06/08/2022 19:16

Urm this is a joke right?

MrsMontyD · 06/08/2022 19:17

I find that weird, it's just very random and I don't know how a man would ever know a woman needed them, you'd never ask one.

ulteriorbread · 06/08/2022 19:18

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MrsTerryPratchett · 06/08/2022 19:19

When I need one, I am in a stall in a loo and say, "oh bugger, has anyone got a tampon?". If a male voice answered, "yes" I'd be very very freaked out.

Now male-run businesses with a basket in the women's loos? Thanks very much. Carrying them around? Yeah bro, I'm literally never going to ask you.

Lockheart · 06/08/2022 19:19

It's a bit unusual but what random men carry around in their pockets is none of my business. If it makes them happy then crack on, I don't care.

MrsTerryPratchett · 06/08/2022 19:20

Lockheart · 06/08/2022 19:19

It's a bit unusual but what random men carry around in their pockets is none of my business. If it makes them happy then crack on, I don't care.

He put it on the internet so he's the one making it other people's business.

Carpy88999 · 06/08/2022 19:20

"Person who menstruates" sounds like typical nice guy bullshit

BigMamaFratelli · 06/08/2022 19:20

Yeah that's weird.

My mate used to carry tampons, but he was a bouncer and they were in case he or anyone else got stabbed😱

MrsTerryPratchett · 06/08/2022 19:21

BigMamaFratelli · 06/08/2022 19:20

Yeah that's weird.

My mate used to carry tampons, but he was a bouncer and they were in case he or anyone else got stabbed😱

That's fine. They are very good as an emergency bandage.

ulteriorbread · 06/08/2022 19:21

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Carpy88999 · 06/08/2022 19:20

"Person who menstruates" sounds like typical nice guy bullshit

This is what I came to say! Why couldn't he say women?

Also if a man ever offered me a tampon I'd be spooked, no way am I inserting something into me that a random man has given me 😂

neverbeenskiing · 06/08/2022 19:24

How would they know if a woman in the vicinity needed one?? Or do they intend to offer them around? "It's my round I think, and can I get any of you ladies a tampon while I'm up?"

BigMamaFratelli · 06/08/2022 19:24

MrsTerryPratchett · 06/08/2022 19:21

That's fine. They are very good as an emergency bandage.

Oh I'm not shocked about him carrying tampons, I'm shocked about the likelihood of him getting stabbed whilst just doing his job.

BruisedSkies · 06/08/2022 19:24

How on earth would he ever know? Not a single woman anywhere would ever ask a man for sanitary products. Creepy McCreep for sure.

Theluggage15 · 06/08/2022 19:26

Person who menstruates isn’t inclusive at all.

howdoesatoastermaketoast · 06/08/2022 19:26

Circumstance and context matters here - I did once hear with approval of a guy who led a hill walking tour (so he's like the guide with the big back pack) leading less experienced confident walkers who had such supplies in addition to wet wipes and first aid gear. I thought that was pretty cool, in a I'm the guy who's prepared to help if you break your arm, or twist your ankle.

Posting about it on twitter is not helpful and reeks of fetish.

MrsTerryPratchett · 06/08/2022 19:26

I'm shocked about the likelihood of him getting stabbed whilst just doing his job.

We possibly frequented different establishments (during my misspent youth obvs)! Poor bouncers in Saaf Laadon it's an ever-present threat!

AnastasiaG · 06/08/2022 19:27

Eurgh just wrong

Jollygreen · 06/08/2022 19:27

Carpy88999 · 06/08/2022 19:20

"Person who menstruates" sounds like typical nice guy bullshit

Or like good old period fetish Yaniv.

AlwaysAugust · 06/08/2022 19:27

I genuinely just burst out laughing 😂
He can't be serious?

VaddaABeetch · 06/08/2022 19:28

Fetish

N4ish · 06/08/2022 19:28

It's a fetish, not something to be celebrated or endorsed.

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ElizaJones · 06/08/2022 19:32

I suspect want he wanted was for everyone to be all like ‘wow that’s so kind. You’re so supportive of women’
really, he sounds like a dick.