Are you responsible for having your husband's work clothes ready and get told off if he can't find stuff ??

[fussytodd]

I'm guessing a lot of people will say NO.

It's really grating on me.

Definitely not

Not a fucking chance! Why can’t he do it himself? He’s a grown man!

Nope.

No, I'm his wife not his mother and he is not a child.

No, it's not the 1950s.

Obviously not. I’m sure you already know that.

No. He's 36 years old and can manage to find his own clothes.

What?! No!!!

Hahaha no.
Though I do do most of the laundry as I'm part time, so I suppose he'd be surprised if zero laundry had been done, but he would just stick a wash on it that case.

It's very frustrating. I'm just at home more, because I work from home and he has a very hectic schedule outside of the home, so he comes home and just crashes.

Wtf? You get told off if he can't find something?

Er, no. But what is the set up because I await a massive drip feed here.

No. In fact when I was a keen young wife 30 years ago and made my first attempt at ironing a shirt, DH (very politely) told me I hadn't got the sleeve creases right. I haven't ironed another shirt since.

No. And I don’t iron his shirts either. I do ask him to take some stuff of mine to the dry cleaners when he takes his suits though.

No.

Your husband is an arsehole.

Of course not.

He washes and irons his own stuff.

As do I.

You know this isn't right.

What did his last slave die of.

No. I do often get "have you seen any clean xyz" ro which I just say no.

@fussytodd

It's very frustrating. I'm just at home more, because I work from home and he has a very hectic schedule outside of the home, so he comes home and just crashes.

Oh poor baby

Well he can crash after he has sorted his own clothes out

Tell him you don't need a vagina to organise clothes...

Ffgs. I work long hours in the NHS, I've never expected anyone to do my washing for me
What does he think k this is 1800.

Fuck no!

No but if he’s can’t find something I do offer assistance

No. Because I am not his servant.

Well what would he do if u weren’t there?!
Sounds like an entitled knob