Are you responsible for having your husband's work clothes ready and get told off if he can't find stuff ??

[fussytodd]

I'm guessing a lot of people will say NO.

It's really grating on me.

@CallMeNutribullet I think you've got it in a nutshell.

Agreed @CallMeNutribullet. The OP needs to start getting her ducks in a row so that if things don't change, she can leave.

Hell no! But I had a friend who did this

I do because I don’t work. I’ve got to sort out school uniform in Sundayvso it would be childish not to do his stuff too. If I worked then no I wouldn’t see it as my job. Equally in the summer I spend a lot of weekends on my own and usually don’t come back until Tuesday so obviously he does it then. It’s about give and take.”

TBH, when I see posts like this, it makes me glad and angry in equal measure. Glad that I work and have an equal relationship with a DH who doesn't expect me to look out clothes for him

Angry that other women are expected to perform basic tasks for their DH

In public, I'd probably support your right to live as you choose. Privately, it makes me feel so disappointed about gender equality

“Why does it make you feel disappointed. My husband works, I don’t and don’t want to. Would it be fairer that he goes to work and does everything else as well?! You choose to work, I choose not. We still split things equally.”