AIBU?

[takenforgrantednana]

so i have put my foot down on the notice for babysitting the grand kids, but the sticking point has been i have said i require "at least 7 days notice" so lets be 100% clear on this ok, if i am asked to collect the kids on monday 1 nov and i require at least 7 days notice, when is the cut off for asking me about it?

i say its on the sunday but hubby refuses point blank to accept that and says im pedantic about it, my reasoning is that over time i know how this will be pushed and pushed until im being given 3 days notice if im lucky

I'm sorry did you actually refer to her as 'the mum'? How rude. I wouldn't want anyone who walks about me in this way around my kids.

Maybe the WI could be a start?

@Pippaskipper

Maybe the WI could be a start?

look i know its a lot of posts to read, clearly you didnt tho as you would have read i have said they are out as the only do 1 night a month and dont start until 7.30 pm! i am practically falling alseep by 8pm! i need something during the day time

@Mollymoostoo

I'm sorry did you actually refer to her as 'the mum'? How rude. I wouldn't want anyone who walks about me in this way around my kids.

@Mollymmstoo, if you have kids then you are their mum! and you think thats rude? god im confussed! what would you like to be called? their aunt? cousin, gt grandma?