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Obscene voicemail would I BU to report it? TMI warning.

278 replies

tinnedpears · 03/10/2021 19:05

So there were three missed calls on my mobile, and a voicemail.

Picked up the voicemail and much to my surprise was treated to a couple of minutes of some saddo wanking.

Amongst the groaning, he called me by my name and informed me that he's found me on google and that it was 'dead fucking easy' to find me. Said he was hoping I'd return his call. I'm a self employed physio, so someone wanting to find me on google would do so really easily.

He didn't bother withholding his number. Should I report him do you think, or just laugh it off?

OP posts:
UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 03/10/2021 19:05

Report it, of course.

Heyyouwhatsthatsoundo · 03/10/2021 19:06

Definitely report! Gross hope you’re okay

Twizbe · 03/10/2021 19:06

Block and report for sure.

Men will continue to do this sort of thing unless we report every single time.

Id also be tempted to name and shame in public too

MyCatDribbles · 03/10/2021 19:07

Report it. Don’t let him get away with this.

MagnoliaBeige · 03/10/2021 19:07

I’d report him to the police without a doubt.

Pinkmagic1 · 03/10/2021 19:08

Please report him.

MrsRobbieHart · 03/10/2021 19:08

Definitely report it.

And be careful about any bookings you are taking. I realise that will be difficult but trust your gut on anyone that just doesn’t seem right.

Sally2791 · 03/10/2021 19:09

Report report report.,That is not normal, who knows what he could do next.

SummerHouse · 03/10/2021 19:09

God, report it. If he is doing this, what other disgusting things is he doing. You are right to take it in your stride but for many, this would be terrifying.

justbinthefeckinbyebyebox · 03/10/2021 19:09

Please report him!!

HellonHeels · 03/10/2021 19:09

Please report it. That is creepy AF

HouseOfFire · 03/10/2021 19:09

Why wouldn't you report it??

Notimeforaname · 03/10/2021 19:09

Eww. Yea report it

Cillmantain · 03/10/2021 19:10

Report.What else is he capable of.
His call was threatening "you were easy to find".If you don't call him back
what is he going to do ?
Probably nothing but you don't know that for sure.

Noogar · 03/10/2021 19:10

Report it please

TunnelOfGoats · 03/10/2021 19:10

Definitely report it!

Chiwi · 03/10/2021 19:10

Please report, there needs to be a record when men do things like this. It so often escalates.

TooBigForMyBoots · 03/10/2021 19:11

Report. I've reported similar.

FanGirlX · 03/10/2021 19:12

Report it. There may be other complaints about him and it will help the police build a picture.

AWiseWomanOnceSaidFuckThisShit · 03/10/2021 19:12

I let a lot of things slide but I'd definitely report this

YupIFreakilyHave · 03/10/2021 19:13

Please report it. It'll be a pattern of behaviour and very likely to escalate (not necessarily with you but with other women).

tinnedpears · 03/10/2021 19:14

@TooBigForMyBoots

Report. I've reported similar.
What happened when you reported Too Big?
OP posts:
Bagelsandbrie · 03/10/2021 19:14

Please report this.

BeetyAxe · 03/10/2021 19:15

Report the dirty bastard. Sorry you had to had to deal with that.

Boood · 03/10/2021 19:15

Report it. They start here, and they end up killing.

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