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Original poster

To think this guy leaving me money is so strange?

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brooksandvicki · 27/09/2021 17:32

Was out last night and met a guy, brought him home and had a one night stand. Had a good night and he left this morning, I then went to work. When I got home I noticed there is a twenty pound note on the side he was 'sleeping'. He obviously does not think I'm a prostitute but why in the hell would he leave that?

AIBU to think this is very very strange?

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QueenoftheKarens · 27/09/2021 17:33

He definitely thinks your a prostitute, sorry.

GiraffeClimber · 27/09/2021 17:34

Could be a mistake. Took it out of his trouser pocket and forgot about it.

Blossomtoes · 27/09/2021 17:36

He obviously does not think I'm a prostitute

I think he might …

Cocomarine · 27/09/2021 17:36

Maybe he knows you’re not a prostitute but gets off on the idea of using one so did it as part of his own kick?

I presume nothing obvious like you’d paid for a taxi back last night?

Shoxfordian · 27/09/2021 17:36

Not a very expensive one either

LtDansLegs · 27/09/2021 17:36

Did you get a taxi / food at all? Was he perhaps paying you back?

If not, just assume it was so mind blowing he thought he'd leave a tip. Or he thinks morning after pills are £20?

DressedinStars · 27/09/2021 17:37

Well he either thinks you are a, cheaply priced prostitute.

Or he found it on the floor and assumed it was yours, picked it up and put it on the side.

Or left it by accident.

Holly60 · 27/09/2021 17:37

Just left it by mistake?

DamnUserName21 · 27/09/2021 17:37

Cheapskate!!! Him, not you.

icedcoffees · 27/09/2021 17:38

Uh, are you sure he doesn't think you're a prostitute?

MeridasMum · 27/09/2021 17:39

He's vile. He knows you're not a prostitute but is insulting you by leaving what he thinks you would be worth if you were. Disgusting piece of shit.
So you know him? I'd shame him to everyone I know for that behaviour

EmmalineC · 27/09/2021 17:39

I'd be insulted - twenty quid for a shag? I'd be phoning him up and asking where the rest of the money was. If you're going to be mistaken for a sex worker, you may as well be mistaken for a high class one.

OlympicProcrastinator · 27/09/2021 17:39

It’s a thing some men do. They get off on it. It’s a deliberate insult. Sorry OP.

Dillydollydingdong · 27/09/2021 17:40

He was having a laugh!

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brooksandvicki · 27/09/2021 17:41

No he knows I'm not a prostitute, I was speaking about my job last night and there's just no way. It was a one night stand there was no insinuation that I was a prostitute. And exactly, even if I was, £20 for the full night!! No he got an Uber through his account and bought a few drinks, didn't owe me a thing. Definitely not my £20.

I have his number, I'm tempted to message him and ask 🤣

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Cocomarine · 27/09/2021 17:43

I really wouldn’t message him. I’m with @OlympicProcrastinator - it’s a pretty shitty insult. Not just the money = prostitute, but the insinuation that you’re only worth £20.

DressedinStars · 27/09/2021 17:43

@OlympicProcrastinator

It’s a thing some men do. They get off on it. It’s a deliberate insult. Sorry OP.
Just asked dp because I didn't believe this. But he said he has heard of it before but not for a long time though.

Can't believe someone would do that. Fucking awful

Sparklfairy · 27/09/2021 17:43

Is this like an uber rating? The higher the amount left, the better the night?

Sorry OP Grin

Original poster
brooksandvicki · 27/09/2021 17:43

It was really good sex as well 😱

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burritofan · 27/09/2021 17:45

Yeah, he’s done it to be a dick. Donate it to a women’s charity or get a takeaway.

Westfacing · 27/09/2021 17:45

You must ask him!

househuntinginthesouth · 27/09/2021 17:45

Could he have left it on purpose so you contact him?

Hoppinggreen · 27/09/2021 17:45

I think it’s his shitty way of telling you that last night was not the start of a beautiful relationship

Egghead68 · 27/09/2021 17:45

He’s a shit. Stay clear.

Sparklfairy · 27/09/2021 17:47

@Westfacing

You must ask him!
No way.