To think this guy leaving me money is so strange?

[brooksandvicki]

Was out last night and met a guy, brought him home and had a one night stand. Had a good night and he left this morning, I then went to work. When I got home I noticed there is a twenty pound note on the side he was 'sleeping'. He obviously does not think I'm a prostitute but why in the hell would he leave that?

AIBU to think this is very very strange?

Oh I’d have to text him to ask. I’d have to know!

Oh god no, don’t contact him again. He’s a nasty misogynistic piece of work.

"Oh you've accidentally left £20 on the bedside table, ok for me to put it in the charity box for you?"

The response will be very telling ....

I wouldn't ask him, if he knows you're not a prostitute then it was probably meant as an insult.

Blimey - I want to know the outcome now, OP!

Just acknowledging it to him will play into his ego. Ignore it and don’t see him again.

I’d be tempted to message him in a few days and say “thanks for the tip - and the chlamydia.”

I understand penile swabs are quite unpleasant.

Post him a picture of you donating it to a charity to support sex education for average men.

I would also have to message to ask what the fuck.

I don't know how much prostitutes charge but I'd assume it's more than £20...

I would say he probably thought he owed for drinks or something

No way I'd let this slide, I'd be texting and asking if he realises he's 'accidentally' left £20 at yours and see what he says.

I would message him only if you are prepared for the worst possible answer.
It may well be harmless.

Do you know where he lives? Post it back through his letterbox in 5p's

Twenty quid wouldn't pay for an overnight prostitute.

Has he helped himself to something & left payment maybe?

I'd block him without so much as a word

@girlmom21

I don't know how much prostitutes charge but I'd assume it's more than £20...

I would say he probably thought he owed for drinks or something

OP says he paid for all the drinks.

Yep this is a really old joke isn’t it

He is a nasty person that gets enjoyment from insulting people so much he doesn’t mind leaving money.

I actually can’t decide if it’s an insult or error.. was he a bit of a dick (ahem) during the evening?

I struggle to believe anyone would be so vile as to think this would be a funny joke

@Meridasmum, I agree. This was my first thought. Disgraceful if that's the case.

I don't think it's supposed to be a funny joke. It's just insulting. Block him. Dickhead.

@brooksandvicki

Was out last night and met a guy, brought him home and had a one night stand. Had a good night and he left this morning, I then went to work. When I got home I noticed there is a twenty pound note on the side he was 'sleeping'. He obviously does not think I'm a prostitute but why in the hell would he leave that?

AIBU to think this is very very strange?

All this prostitute business being mentioned didn't even cross my mind.

My initial thought was he left it there so you would contact him again "oh you left money" ... "thanks very much for getting in touch, anyway while I have you when can I see you again?".

That's how I would have taken it anyway. They like you?

He seemed like a decent enough guy, however, 37 and no long term relationship ever he said last night so I'm assuming something is up! But no, I didn't get any bad vibes and I would never think it was the beginning of a blossoming relationship! And didnt act that way either