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husband got back at half 5 this morning

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bubblegum02 · 19/06/2021 07:39

hello,

based on some of the threads on here, I'm assuming I'm going to get a lot of kill joy comments and the fact it's the euros too but I am annoyed.

my partner said he was going for a "couple" last night. I am 4 months pregnant and we have a one year old. I went to bed at about 10 and heard him come in. when I looked at the time, expecting it to be about half 11 as the pubs round here are still shutting earlier than usual it was half 5!

what has pissed me off about this is, one year old has woken up at 7, we went down about half 7 and of course, he is totally dead to the world. he has slept in our spare room downstairs which is something I suppose.

he was meant to be looking after the one year old for me whilst I go out for lunch today but he isnt responding to me at all. or the one year old.

he was out all day for the game last sunday too, was out pretty much the whole of the bank holiday and last Saturday too.

I'm getting fed up now, I'm not going to be able to leave the one year old with him, it is like he is unconscious and I'm meant to be going at 11.

not cool - pre kids, it wouldnt of been an issue but think he needs to grow up a bit. not against having a bit of fun but rocking in at that time when you are supposed to be looking after your child the next day is taking the piss.

has ruined my day too now and he will inevitably be feeling very sorry for himself.

OP posts:
Ugzbugz · 23/06/2021 20:24

Haven't read back but this is in the mirror now

candyflossss · 23/06/2021 21:28

@Ugzbugz

Haven't read back but this is in the mirror now
I know, lazy bastards
CandyLeBonBon · 23/06/2021 23:02

@Sayonethingtypeanother

I’m away candy

I need a brew but I daresay you aren’t hearing what I’m saying either.

Please report me if you think I’ve been horrible.

I was being lighthearted because it's all got a bit heavy going on here and it's just not bloody necessary tbh.
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candyflossss · 24/06/2021 08:26

it is ridiculous that someone can come onto someone elses thread, be as rude as you have and have the audacity to then accuse me of trolling.

go away and get a life, or better yet start your own thread and invoke a genuinely meaningful debate.

candyflossss · 24/06/2021 08:27

and so bored yet you keep on coming back to get one more dig in. what a sad little life Jane.

NeonDreams · 24/06/2021 08:57

Has the OP changed nics? What happened to bubblegum02?

TopBlogger · 24/06/2021 09:29

Bubblegum is now candyfloss, soon to be toffeeappleonastick to thoroughly confuse me Confused

Scaredycatmoo · 24/06/2021 09:51

This is one of the oddest threads I have ever come across on mumsnet.

Scrap that.

It’s the oddest Grin

sillysmiles · 24/06/2021 11:02

@TopBlogger

Bubblegum is now candyfloss, soon to be toffeeappleonastick to thoroughly confuse me Confused
That makes it so hard to follow the OP's posts.
WearSomeDrawersGlenda · 24/06/2021 11:39

And also possibly Lemonzandlimes

Poorlykitten · 24/06/2021 11:41

@Scaredycatmoo you really can’t have read many then! 😂

candyflossss · 24/06/2021 11:49

Lemonz is not me.

I have explained why I name changed.

yeah I wouldn't say this is the strangest thread or even close on here. One of the ones who has attracted some of the nastiest though for sure.

WearSomeDrawersGlenda · 24/06/2021 11:57

My mistake then.

It is just that they took time to copy a post on this thread, thanked them for it, and then immediately said wrong thread when they were on the right thread for the copied post.

You can see how it could get confusing eh?

candyflossss · 24/06/2021 12:03

You can just click quote now though so i can see how they could of easily accidentally done so and then realised they were on the wrong thread.

All my posts under this username aren't really relevant to the original post anyway tbh - only to defend myself against some posters who seem to of taken great offence to me sticking up for myself.

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