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Chairs given away have caused damage, who should pay?

303 replies

FirstNameSurname · 03/06/2021 10:01

Last year I was given a dining table and due to lockdown I brought the cheapest chairs online to make the table usable. I used them all year for homeschooling, meals etc they have been well used. Metal legs are a bit rocky etc so I went shopping now we can and brought replacements.
Chatting to a friend I mentioned mutual friend was helping me take a load to the skip. Friend asked what I was taking and I said the chairs. Friend asked for the chairs. I explained they were a bit grubby and rocky and were the ones I got last year cheap online so didn't think they were worth the trip to hers for her to then need to skip them soon. She said she still wanted them, so I dropped them off to her about 3 weeks ago.

This morning she messages me to say the chairs have cut circles in the lino. I apologised and said that I was sorry I should have just skipped them when I planned to. She has come back saying I should have known and shes not happy. I called her and explained that on my tiled floor it wasn't something I noticed. Shes replied it was the tiles that have caused the plastic ends to push into the leg exposing the metal leg and caused the problem. Just as I said my goodbyes she said "well you'll need to replace the lino before I move out else you'll need to give me the money I loose on my deposit" and hung up. I've text to say she asked for the chairs knowing they were in a poor condition so I can't give her anything to replace the lino. Shes now blocked me.

So who should pay?

OP posts:
DarcyLewis · 03/06/2021 10:03

Not your problem.

Oenanthe · 03/06/2021 10:03

Lol! She should pay massively for being a CF.

CoffeeWithMyOxygen · 03/06/2021 10:03

Good grief your (ex) friend is a cheeky fucker! Not your fault or your problem.

MacCoffee · 03/06/2021 10:03

Not you! Wow she’s a CF!

HotToddyColdSauvignon · 03/06/2021 10:04

Block her back, keep all text messages showing what you’ve said and then ignore. Not your issue

Losttheequipment · 03/06/2021 10:04

She’s nuts

KatChocolate · 03/06/2021 10:04

She should pay.

MaMelon · 03/06/2021 10:04

Goodbye ex friend, it’s not been lovely knowing you!

Of course she should pay 😊

jobsagudden · 03/06/2021 10:05

She should definitely pay! She's crackers!

RogueV · 03/06/2021 10:05

Wow. She can fuck off. The gaul!!! Blush

Aprilwasverywet · 03/06/2021 10:05

Bet she wants a brand new table and chairs too!
Tell her to jog on!

CrazyNeighbour · 03/06/2021 10:05

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Icepops · 03/06/2021 10:05

Her! Not your problem at all. You wanted to take them to the skip and she asked for them, entirely on her!

Bluesheep8 · 03/06/2021 10:06

What?! Of course she should pay!

Karwomannghia · 03/06/2021 10:06

She’s trying it on and probably can’t afford the new lino so she’s panicking.

romdowa · 03/06/2021 10:06

Surely in the last year she must have noticed the exposed metal and the marks to the lino? It hardly takes a genius to figure out what will happen. I'd tell her to jog on anyway

Penners99 · 03/06/2021 10:07

Not your circus, not your monkeys.

Whyhello · 03/06/2021 10:07

Ha, what a strange friend you have! Of course you shouldn’t pay.

BraveBraveMouse · 03/06/2021 10:07

That's bonkers! What a CF she is.

Twofurrycats · 03/06/2021 10:08

She's having a laugh. Keep her blocked.

KarmaStar · 03/06/2021 10:08

What?I hope you are not seriously considering paying her?not a penny.block her and do not communicate further with her .she is not a friend is she?

osbertthesyrianhamster · 03/06/2021 10:08

CFer chancer! Fuck her. Block her back so she can't unblock you and harass you. Good for you not being a sap and giving her a penny. Keep her shitty messages, too, in case she tries anything else on. Good riddance to her.

LobotomisedIceSkatingFan · 03/06/2021 10:08

She's round the bend.

WimpoleHat · 03/06/2021 10:08

She’s bonkers.....

Ughmaybenot · 03/06/2021 10:09

Handy of her to block you, saves you a job. Silly so and so, of course it’s not your problem!