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To think she can’t cut the puppy’s ears!

179 replies

Poorpup201 · 07/05/2021 10:16

So I had to name change to post this. My friend was given a dog, a tiny little puppy by her boyfriend who breeds dogs Sad
Today the puppy is going to get its ears cut because her boyfriend thinks it looks better and he will have more chance to breed. She knows it’s illegal but she said he insists. I don’t know who’s going to crop this poor puppy’s ears but I honestly feel sick about this little baby being in pain. I don’t know how I can stop this, because my friend seems passive and because he said it’s happening it just is.

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Horehound · 07/05/2021 10:18

Why did you have to name change?

thereisonlyoneofme · 07/05/2021 10:19

Someone needs to get other parts cut methinks

Calvinlookingforhobbes · 07/05/2021 10:20

Cal the RSPCA or DOGS TRUST. OR A VET AND REPORT. DO IT NOW.

Poorpup201 · 07/05/2021 10:20

Because I’ve posted before about situations which would be identifying along with this post

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Vetyveriohohoh · 07/05/2021 10:20

I couldn’t continue to be friends with so
Done who allowed this to happen or intends to start breeding for cash. It’ll all horrible.

An0n0n0n · 07/05/2021 10:20

Phone the police, ita all you can do.

PoTheDog · 07/05/2021 10:20

Call the rspca and report the boyfriend?

Flowerlane · 07/05/2021 10:20

Where is the dog located as different countries have different rules. Also is it a working dog breed?

Poorpup201 · 07/05/2021 10:21

I can call and give her information? I’d do anything to make sure it won’t happen. But he breeds dogs for money. The thought of him doing this over and over again. It makes me sick

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SleepingStandingUp · 07/05/2021 10:21

I couldn't be friends with someone who passively sat by and let their partner abuse their pet

I'd Def report it if you can, I don't know the logistics under the circs but I'd try

UnkindlyMay · 07/05/2021 10:21

It’s illegal, so phone the police for advice

Horehound · 07/05/2021 10:21

I'd just link this to your friend
www.rspca.org.uk/-/blog-ear-cropping
Ask her if she would have her ears cut off to make her look better?

And if she goes ahead with it, I would be reporting the Incident to the police since it is illegal and I'd be telling her that's what I would be doing.

AOwlAOwlAOwl · 07/05/2021 10:21

I'm more concerned that the bf is apparently planning some kind of puppy farm rather than having the poor thing as a pet!

Mutilating it's ears is appalling Sad

Poorpup201 · 07/05/2021 10:21

We’re in the Uk and it’s not a working dog no. It’s purely for financial reasons they’re doing this

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Madeshead0105 · 07/05/2021 10:22

The logic of making it easier to breed from because of cut ears makes no sense to me.

Could you elaborate the rationale to me please?

They're arrant tossers anyway.Angry

Cocomarine · 07/05/2021 10:22

Would only remain friends with her if this is part of being in an abusive relationship and she needs support to see that and leave it.

Otherwise - she’s as culpable as him on the animal cruelty, and I can’t see any reason why you would want to be friends with someone like that 🤷🏻‍♀️

Pomplemousses · 07/05/2021 10:22

Report it. She sounds like an asshole. Her bf clearly is too, but since she's your friend, I'd be more concerned about her asshole-ishness.

tracker222 · 07/05/2021 10:22

I'd be reporting them to the RSPCA and the police asap. And she would no longer be friends with me and I'd be telling her exactly why. Animal cruelty is abhorrent.

Ellpellwood · 07/05/2021 10:23

Well, he isn't the owner if he gave it to her so he can fuck off. Phone the police.

HappyRaven · 07/05/2021 10:23

I hope your friend and her boyfriend end up with a massive fine and are banned from keeping dogs. How can you be friends with people like this?

FAQs · 07/05/2021 10:23

Are you going to report them?

I would and I’d tell them I’d done it.

Flowerlane · 07/05/2021 10:23

As the dog is in the UK and not a working dog then it is illegal.

Please report.

Lockheart · 07/05/2021 10:24

I don’t know how I can stop this

Calling the RSPCA / the police / a vet didn't cross your mind?

Poorpup201 · 07/05/2021 10:25

Honestly she never had any animals. This is a new boyfriend so it’s all news to me. She’s just told me it’s happening and I’m at a loss. She is so passive in this relationship anything he says goes. I’m not friends with him. I completely agree, I hate the thought of any animal suffering.

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Whatwouldscullydo · 07/05/2021 10:25

Puppy farming and puppy harming.. Sad

I couldn't be friends with someone who didn't have a problem with that.

Poor little mite:(

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