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To think she can’t cut the puppy’s ears!

179 replies

Poorpup201 · 07/05/2021 10:16

So I had to name change to post this. My friend was given a dog, a tiny little puppy by her boyfriend who breeds dogs Sad
Today the puppy is going to get its ears cut because her boyfriend thinks it looks better and he will have more chance to breed. She knows it’s illegal but she said he insists. I don’t know who’s going to crop this poor puppy’s ears but I honestly feel sick about this little baby being in pain. I don’t know how I can stop this, because my friend seems passive and because he said it’s happening it just is.

OP posts:
Mummyoflittledragon · 07/05/2021 11:17

You are doing a good and brave thing. I hope he hasn’t had the dog’s ears cut yet. Poor thing. It’s pretty obvious this is breeding to fight. Awful.

Laiste · 07/05/2021 11:18

www.google.com/search?q=american+bully&sxsrf=ALeKk00BSXMtuYhbCYTiTqeBt5gV1WkHVA:1620382391452&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwi8zd7mqrfwAhWPYMAKHQoJBkEQ_AUoAXoECAEQAw&biw=1238&bih=725

Bloody hell! Scary looking dog. Looks like they chop their poor ears to little stumps! :( (nothing bloody or shocking in the link above just lots of different pics of the breed. Some still have their floppy ears and you can see a big difference)

SchadenfreudePersonified · 07/05/2021 11:19

@Calvinlookingforhobbes

Cal the RSPCA or DOGS TRUST. OR A VET AND REPORT. DO IT NOW.
This!

FFS!

No vet will do it - he'll be doing it himself with scissors or a Stanley knife. That pup will be in agony - it may well get infected and die.

What a bastard!

Viviennemary · 07/05/2021 11:19

Report them if you know the procedure is illegal.

Laiste · 07/05/2021 11:20

Well done OP, and good luck.

Poorpup201 · 07/05/2021 11:20

They do look scary with their ears like that. He hasn’t had his ears done thank god. I’m glad that it’s happened this way. Hopefully the police can do something. At least this way it keeps a degree of separation between us.

OP posts:
Alexapissoff · 07/05/2021 11:24

They are quite terrifyingly powerful dogs.

I knew a family with two of them as pets with very young children. It always baffled me why you would take that risk.

I mean, I grew up with golden retrievers. I know any dog can turn but to be honest, the family
I knew had the dogs for some sort of shit “status”. They wouldn’t have considered a breed like a retriever because it wouldn’t make them look a certain way.

Fucking pathetic really.

Laiste · 07/05/2021 11:26

Just googled the Bully 'XL'. A random american site Shock Lots of pics of the puppies with their lovely ears and then all the adults with the cropped stumps :( :(

They look like horns don't they, cropped.

I'd happily chop the ears off one of these people with a pair of scissors just like they do to their dogs! Bastards.

2bazookas · 07/05/2021 11:31

You report this animal cruelty crime to the police.

Foofer · 07/05/2021 11:34

Ear cropping is so awful! There’s been a recent campaign against it, saw a segment on This Morning.

It’s mainly done by yobs who use these poor bull breeds as status symbols as it makes them look more aggressive. As a previous poster mentioned it’ll be done with scissors or a knife in one of these scumbags grotty kitchens.
The poor dogs are left with infection issues (in & out of the ear), trauma response (like you can’t pet their heads as all they associate it with is pain) and other dogs react badly towards them as they can’t read their body language relating to their ears.
Really despicable.

Well done you for trying to intervene, I hope the authorities take this seriously and put a stop to it. Good luck!

(And I’d never be able to see that friend the same again unfortunately - enablers of scum are scum themselves)

Greenmarmalade · 07/05/2021 11:53

I agree with pp- I think you’re doing a really good, brave thing.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 07/05/2021 11:57

Please make sure you speak to the police too OP.

Happenchance · 07/05/2021 11:59

@Poorpup201

They do look scary with their ears like that. He hasn’t had his ears done thank god. I’m glad that it’s happened this way. Hopefully the police can do something. At least this way it keeps a degree of separation between us.
If he does take the puppy back, I would take a dated picture of it before he does. That way, if he has the puppy's ears cropped, you have evidence that it didn't have cropped ears before he took possession of it.
Lougle · 07/05/2021 12:02

Well done and I hope the puppy gets to you.

CartTriesToDriveTheHorse · 07/05/2021 12:04

Well done OP. Doing the right thing isn’t always easy but it is always necessary.

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 07/05/2021 12:05

He shouldn't be breeding dogs or children. Perfect rationale for chopping his dick off - and ears should you fancy.
report to police

Streamside · 07/05/2021 12:10

Ask her how she will take this mutilated dog out for a walk or to a vet? How will she feel the puppy dies with an infection. I simply couldn't be friends with her anymore if she proceeds with this.

Aprilshowersandhail · 07/05/2021 13:19

If you get the dpuppy ring her and say it was stolen from your garden... And hand it in somewhere suitable..

LIZS · 07/05/2021 13:22

Is this not illegal?

LIZS · 07/05/2021 13:24

@Poorpup201

So RSPCA took my details, her details and said they will send someone round for a welfare check. She’s actually messaged and said she’s going to bring the puppy round to my house because shes working all weekend now.

Which is great as I’ve found his page where he sells dogs. I’m going to report him as soon as the puppy is here.

Posted too soon. Screenshot the page before he takes it down
RickJames · 07/05/2021 13:26

So your mate is going out with a thug, basically. Keep yourself safe whatever you decide to do, they sound awful, both of them.

littledrummergirl · 07/05/2021 13:27

We got our pup from a rescue after some fucker docked her tail illegally. She dislikes police sirens and arrived at the rescue in the middle of the night so we think she was saved then. I hope they threw the book at the bastards that did it.
I'm glad you are doing the right thing.

Fastforwardtospring · 07/05/2021 13:33

Who would even do this, some back street ear cropper? All sorts could go wrong, this is making me feel sick that there’s people out there that would do this. Would be an ex friend of mine for even potentially going along with it.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 07/05/2021 13:36

And do report him to HMRC, they would love to see his breeding page!

www.gov.uk/report-an-unregistered-trader-or-business

WiddlinDiddlin · 07/05/2021 13:45

Point out to her that the penalty now for animal abuse/cruelty is up to 5 years in prison - its HER puppy, if she allows this SHE stands to recieve a similar penalty should they be caught, as well as her scummy boyfriend.