To think oral sex is unpleasant?

[barnabybarbie]

Name changed for obvious reasons.

I should specify - I mean receiving oral sex, not giving it. Giving it I don't mind either way, but receiving really gives me the ick for some reason (even hypothetically from someone I'm otherwise attracted to).

Am I alone in this?

Yup, love it

Love giving, hate receiving - you're not alone

Good start, thank you for your honesty

Not a fan. Too slimy.

Depends on who 😂

(that was to Baby )

Same. Just not a fan thanks.

Not a fan. Too slimy.

Yes! You get it. Maybe I have a tongue phobia.

Alone in this. It's the best thing since sliced bread.

I didn't think much of it before I met my DP. Get someone who is good at it and god, you will see stars.

@Sarahlou63

Love giving, hate receiving - you're not alone

Same here

Tbh most sexual activities would give most people the ick to think about in the cold light of day... but in the moment... mmmmmmm

Yabu.

I don’t like receiving oral sex. Gives me the ick too and no one has ever got close to giving me an orgasm from it so I don’t see the point.

Only if it is done right , a friend ( honest ) once told me her BF does it like a dog licking a ice cream, I could never quite look at him the same again !

Also gives me the ick. It’s a constant source of contention between DH and me because he’s always going on about how he wants to do it because it turns him on so much. I ask how can it possibly turn him on to see me go rigid like a board because I’m so uncomfortable and make faces expressing how much I’m NOT enjoying it?

I don't mind giving as long as good hygiene is maintained (unwashed sweaty bits need not apply)

I love receiving however my OH is very skilled at it;I think if you have a partner who's crap at it it's very off putting.

I have a friend who doesn't like receiving;she says she hates the feel so each to their own however I've yet to meet a bloke who doesn't like a BJ.

For those who have said they don't like it much either, are you relatively body confident? I'm not and I'm trying to establish if this is an insecurity thing or just a personal preference.

It's one of my least favourite sex acts and men usually want to do it (badly) under the guise of "female pleasure" even if you're not enjoying it. Shambles!

Cringes me out too

Love the feeling but can't look at them doing it.

See I hate this, it just reinforces to men that they should get it but women shouldn’t receive it because it’s “yucky and dirty” i wonder how many men don’t want a bJ because it gives them the “ick” bet none 😂

It's such an intimate thing that if you don't feel comfortable in your skin or with your partner then I can imagine it's not enjoyable.

Also gives me the ick. It’s a constant source of contention between DH and me because he’s always going on about how he wants to do it because it turns him on so much. I ask how can it possibly turn him on to see me go rigid like a board because I’m so uncomfortable and make faces expressing how much I’m NOT enjoying it?

On my god! Are you me?!? I've had exactly that conversation with DH.

I hate it! Happy to give it though (on either sex).

And for the record I love it!

Didn’t like it when I was super skinny not fussed now either. I need friction, and this is just way to wet.

As PP have said depends who's doing it.

Too wet. Ffs need an edit button.