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Do you still 'snog' your husband?

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scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 21:12

We've been together for 6 years and married for 3 but I don't think we've had anything more passionate than a smooch on the lips for almost 2 years.
I'm Interested in what other couples do!?

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Palavah · 18/12/2020 21:12

Placemarking!

blowinahoolie · 18/12/2020 21:13

Unfortunately not. Hectic household lately has made it low on list of priorities. Always someone needing me or him and when in bed we are usually zonked.

Ohalrightthen · 18/12/2020 21:15

Only during sex. Otherwise no, no tongue.

Also, you haven't had sex in 2 years!?

Thehogfatherstolemycurry · 18/12/2020 21:17

Yes. Daily! Love a snog.
Been together 16 years.

lockedoutt · 18/12/2020 21:19

Mostly during sex, but occasionally randomly, too!! Grin

AnneLovesGilbert · 18/12/2020 21:21

Yes. Every day. Wouldn’t be married to him if I didn’t want to.

This is the third thread about snogging in as many weeks. It seems to be a new obsession round here. Most people who comment seem to think it’s disgusting which I think is sad.

fourandnomore · 18/12/2020 21:21

Always during sex, but not often otherwise. Been together well over 20 years.

YerWanIsGettinNotions · 18/12/2020 21:28

Not very often, only really as the forerunner to DTD now.

DH loves kissing but has never liked PDAs around his family. This meant his parents at first because they are Very Uncomfortable with all displays of affection, and that was fine in the early days, but in the last few years kissing at home all but vanished and I've come to realise this also means in front of the children. The problem is that the children are never not around during waking hours...

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scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 21:29

@Ohalrightthen

Only during sex. Otherwise no, no tongue.

Also, you haven't had sex in 2 years!?

@Ohalrightthen no we still do just without any snoggage Sad
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LastChristmas20 · 18/12/2020 21:35

Yes.

90% of that during foreplay/sex though.

But occasionally in we do randomly too. For some reason usually in the kitchen.

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scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 21:41

@Thehogfatherstolemycurry daily! Shock Envy
id kill for a proper French kiss everyday.

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scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 21:50

@Palavah haha Smile

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scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 22:02

@Palavah
Most people who comment seem to think it’s disgusting which I think is sad.
agreed.

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pinkdragons · 18/12/2020 22:04

No. Yuck. The thought of full on snogs with tongues makes me feel grossed out.

We don't even kiss on the lips that much anymore. Still have sex etc. It can happen without.

blindmansbluff · 18/12/2020 22:06

Snog my husband daily, been together for 18 years. Usually in the kitchen for some reason! We are also affectionate in front of the kids, no snogs but often a peck. I think it's important they see we love each other.

StopMakingATitOfUrselfNPissOff · 18/12/2020 22:08

Yes to snogging! Not everyday but also not only during sex. A random snog is a nice treat Grin

HermioneWeasley · 18/12/2020 22:11

Yes. The kids think it’s disgusting

im5050 · 18/12/2020 22:13

Married 21 years
Proper kissing with tongues and everything 😂😂 every day without fail
Also do short peck on lips and cheeks if we are in a rush
Neither of us would leave the house without saying by and giving each other a proper kiss

Couldn’t imagine not being with someone I love and not wanting to kiss them properly
Although we still hold hands and are quite a touchy couple when we are out and about

CrackersDontMatter · 18/12/2020 22:13

@blindmansbluff

Snog my husband daily, been together for 18 years. Usually in the kitchen for some reason! We are also affectionate in front of the kids, no snogs but often a peck. I think it's important they see we love each other.
Yes every day. And quite often in the kitchen for us too. There's not usually anyone else in there I suppose.
ReeseWitherfork · 18/12/2020 22:14

We have the odd snog but DH always sees it as a sign that sex is next. Not necessarily a bad thing but sometimes I just don't have the time 😂 so I have to keep it to a minimum!

TheChosenTwo · 18/12/2020 22:14

Quite often. Not daily but a few times a week randomly. And usually during sex.

hf2345 · 18/12/2020 22:14

Not since having a child 🤷🏻‍♀️

NaughtipussMaximus · 18/12/2020 22:14

When he’s had a shave. I hate beard rash.

beavisandbutthead · 18/12/2020 22:15

We always enjoyed a snog even after 20yrs...

BrokenNotDead · 18/12/2020 22:16

Everyday before 1 of us leaves the house, you never know if they're going to come home so why wouldn't you snog him like you're never going to see him again?