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Do you still 'snog' your husband?

215 replies

scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 21:12

We've been together for 6 years and married for 3 but I don't think we've had anything more passionate than a smooch on the lips for almost 2 years.
I'm Interested in what other couples do!?

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N0tfinished · 19/12/2020 00:13

@InTheShadowOfTheMushroomCloud

Oh god yes... nearly 60 and we snog whenever we can. Big snog this afternoon as he went off to work... I am a good 6" shorter than him so I stand on a kitchen step... He says 'get on your step girl! '..... saves our arthritic necks!
That's the cutest thing I've ever heard!!!
Glitterinthegrey · 19/12/2020 00:15

Yes! Every day, and like lots of others, often in the kitchen, what is it with kitchens?? We're quite tactile and affectionate with each other generally, still hold hands too.

CrazyFoxLady · 19/12/2020 00:15

@N0tfinished I love this! Been married for 21 years and never had this. Love you ❤️

Phrowzunn · 19/12/2020 00:20

@LadyTiredWinterBottom2

What no snoggage during the sexy time?! We don't snog every time but pretty much every time. We occasionally snog outside of sex but l have to be careful as be takes this aa a wink and a nod, the randy sod, and sometimes l just want a snog. Been together 18 years married for 10.
I could have written this about my DH! I love a good snog but they have a very powerful effect so you have to be careful!
FitterHappierMoreProductive · 19/12/2020 00:22

@CrazyFoxLady

He’s a right soppy bastard! Grin

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 19/12/2020 00:31

@PickAChew

Ugh, no. But as of 2 days ago I'm officially menopausal and my libido departed with my cycle.
Get a doctor's appointment and ask to be referred to a menopause clinic. You have the rest of your (and your DP's) life to think about.
Lobeu · 19/12/2020 00:33

Only in the lead up to sex Blush

IamAporcupine · 19/12/2020 01:35

We only snog during sexy unfortunately, as I absolutely love kissing.

Lots of lovely posts in this thread, I must admit I feel jealous and sad as some of you describe what I always wanted in a relationship but do not have.

scarletqueen · 19/12/2020 08:54

Awwww
Some lovely stories here keep them coming
I'm in a very snoggy mood now lol
Dont think I can wait till my NYE kiss

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StormcloakNord · 19/12/2020 09:19

Yeah we're in the once a day group! We kiss/cuddle throughout the day and usually steal a song while we're cooking dinner & our daughter is upstairs.

I try not to do snogging in bed though as it almost always leads to sex and I'm too bloody tired for it half the time Grin

scarletqueen · 19/12/2020 09:20

Feeling very jealous of all lovey dovey couples rn
What do you reckon ladies should I just go for it?
And give DH a proper tongue wrestling snog like we used to?

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Bumpsadaisie · 19/12/2020 09:31

Yes in sex - not on a stand-alone basis though 🤣

scarletqueen · 19/12/2020 09:33

@elp30

About a minute before I read this thread, my husband (of 25 years, nonetheless) asked,

"The kids are off in 30 minutes. You want to sit next to me and give me a snog?"

I said, "Sure, why not?"

There you go.

I Love this and how casual it is lolSmile I Miss my casual spontaneous snogs in uni
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impostersong · 19/12/2020 09:38

This post makes me very sad. I love deep kissing and miss it so much. Married 10yrs and my DH never kisses me. At first I thought it was because I smoked, so I quit. Nope, not that. He then gets the hump cos I don't want sex. How could I possibly want sex if he won't even kiss me? No kisses, no cuddles, no hand holds. Yet it my fault as I don't want sex.

scarletqueen · 19/12/2020 09:50

@impostersong
I'm sorry for you
That shouldn't happen to any couple

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Frazzled2207 · 19/12/2020 09:51

During sex yes. Otherwise rarely. Together 13 years married for 10.

scarletqueen · 19/12/2020 10:06

@BitOfFun

Proper good kisses every day (15 years together). We've never been very tonguey though.
Good for you after 15 yrs Sad for you cos tho I love french kissing I find it very sexy
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scarletqueen · 19/12/2020 10:16

@LadyTiredWinterBottom2
I can defo understand just wanting a snog and no sex like you said.
Sometimes I just wanna smooch but
Rn I could go for a sloppy tonguefest tho

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romany4 · 19/12/2020 10:32

Love snogging my DH.
Been married 30 years and his kisses still make me tingly

scarletqueen · 19/12/2020 10:38

DH is looking very snoggable today
Ok ladies screw it I'm just gonna go for it
BRB

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yelyah22 · 19/12/2020 10:48

Yaaaaay go OP! We do, also usually in the kitchen haha - definitely more often as a precursor to sex, I would like more general recreational snogging.

grannyinapram · 19/12/2020 11:00

mmmm I love snogging
its what I missed most about the early days of our relationship until I decided to stop missing it and start kissing it Wink
we snog loads now

StormBaby · 19/12/2020 11:29

@CrazyFoxLady it makes me wibbly just thinking about it.

Those of you that want this and no longer have it, I challenge you to just go for it! Just grab the man in your life and snog them!

scarletqueen · 19/12/2020 12:06

Grinphew
ok so first I just kissed DH then slipped him some tongue
he responded and we had a passionate snog!
I think we both forgot what great French kissers we are
we defo got a bit carried away with our tongues Shock
It was a proper old fashioned snogathon for half/hour
beat that ladies!💋
hope this wasn't TMI.
p.s good thing we were not in the kitchen as my bra ended up on the floorWink

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NeonSparkle · 19/12/2020 12:12

Yes we still snog but not every day. We kiss every day but it’s not necessarily a snog if that makes sense. We are very tactile with each other though, cuddle every evening on the sofa and we’re both cuddly sleepers in bed. I think it’s just both of our love languages- we need physical affection for reassurance lol
We’ve been married for 3 years and together for 9 and have a DS aged 3.