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Do you still 'snog' your husband?

215 replies

scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 21:12

We've been together for 6 years and married for 3 but I don't think we've had anything more passionate than a smooch on the lips for almost 2 years.
I'm Interested in what other couples do!?

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itshappened · 21/12/2020 20:08

Only when ive been drinking lots of wine as that's pretty much the only time we ever have sex! We rarely kiss since children and I have to avoid the occasional kiss now too, so that he doesn't get the wrong idea and think it's leading to something. We were big snoggers when we met but after nearly 20 years together I just don't feel like it anymore. I didn't realise other people who have been married for years snogged every day in kitchens!

LastChristmas20 · 21/12/2020 20:10

Appears that Saturdays snog (and the later evening activities that inspired) started something

DH just pinned me to sofa snogging. Going to be a fun evening here. Grin

Sceptre86 · 21/12/2020 20:12

With tongues tends to be in the evening as dh is mindful infront of the kids. Otherwise we kiss and cuddle everyday, married for nearly 7 years but been together for 8.

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 20:23

@LastChristmas20
You can thank me later
Lol
Glad it worked so well for you
I am clearly a expert at relationships

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Josiemac93 · 21/12/2020 20:24

Yes!!! Absolutely! We've been together 10 years, mostly during sex, but sometimes randomly if we're feeling affectionate.

pringlebells · 21/12/2020 20:24

Yeah, during sex and sometimes just a snog in bed or if we get baby free time 😂 DH loves a snog

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 20:32

@Iamblossom
I was serious go on and give your DH a kiss
You said u love it and sounds like he did too.
Come on im trying to feel like a love guru over here!

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scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 20:40

@LastChristmas20
Ooh why all the trips to Paris?

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LastChristmas20 · 21/12/2020 20:47

[quote scarletqueen]@LastChristmas20
Ooh why all the trips to Paris?[/quote]
Business links.

Plus I love a bit of French shopping. I get (maybe got, who knows after Brexit) discount Eurostar tickets so will often book a cheap return as a day trip/mini break.

Or even a booze cruise/drive to Calais. Basically I'm obsessed with shopping abroad and France is the easiest way to get a quick fix. Grin

Were meant to be at Lille Christmas market last week. Xmas Sad

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 20:59

@LastChristmas20
Thanks for the reply
I miss christmas markets too

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scarletqueen · 22/12/2020 11:21

@Sceptre86
That's nice
Didn't think of cuddles
Kinda Miss those

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scarletqueen · 22/12/2020 14:52

@VixenBlitzen

Snog means with tongue, right? Only for sex. Otherwise it's a peck on lips.
@VixenBlitzen Hmm perhaps I should ask what snogging means to everyone? as to me it always meant long kiss with tongues but it seems others disagree
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scarletqueen · 22/12/2020 15:03

@pringlebells
🤣
Lucky! most of the blokes I knew
Were never huge fans of just snogging
Till DH!

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Eaumyword · 22/12/2020 15:16

Nope. He's grown a spiky beard this year and it's like kissing a Mason Pearson hairbrush.

Bluesheep8 · 22/12/2020 15:30

Nope, never

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