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Do you still 'snog' your husband?

215 replies

scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 21:12

We've been together for 6 years and married for 3 but I don't think we've had anything more passionate than a smooch on the lips for almost 2 years.
I'm Interested in what other couples do!?

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Meowchickameowmeow · 20/12/2020 16:24

@VixenBlitzen

Snog means with tongue, right? Only for sex. Otherwise it's a peck on lips.
No, it simply means a long kiss. Tongues do not have to be involved.
inappropriateraspberry · 20/12/2020 17:07

Ah, see a song to me is a big, long, sloppy french kiss! We kiss a lot, but don't snog.

StormBaby · 20/12/2020 17:09

Oooh just had a lovely knee trembler snogging sesh in the kitchen again 😍 What is it with kitchens?

YouJustDoYou · 20/12/2020 17:10

Sometimes, but then he gets a massive hardon and tries to rub the bloody thing on me whilst I'm trying to get the kids ready for school, so I tend to avoid it during the day at least.

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 09:39

@inappropriateraspberry

Ah, see a song to me is a big, long, sloppy french kiss! We kiss a lot, but don't snog.
@inappropriateraspberry Means the same for me too Otherwise it's just a smooch
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Whattimeisdinner · 21/12/2020 09:43

The word ‘snoggage’ is grim.

Whattimeisdinner · 21/12/2020 09:44

YouJustDoYou

FFS!! 😂😂😂😂😂

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 10:00

@YouJustDoYou
Lmao how charming!

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MariaK91 · 21/12/2020 11:03

We kiss each other a lot but don't regularly go for a full on snog.

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 12:19

@Whattimeisdinner
Funny I've always loved the word
Dont know why

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scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 18:38

@StormBaby
Fab!
Love getting some wobbly knees Wink

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Iamblossom · 21/12/2020 18:41

No, not even during sex, because we usually do it in the morning and both have morning breath. But I miss it and it makes me sad we don't. I love snogging.

Iamblossom · 21/12/2020 18:42

Also think that if you think snogging your partner is disgusting there is some thing very wrong.

Twinkie01 · 21/12/2020 18:44

I'm quite happy with no tongues unless it's part of the build up to sex, DH is a proper snogger though, I have to dive in for a quick peck if I'm leaving the house to get away from his roaming tongue.

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 18:53

@Iamblossom
Imo best way to get it back
Is just to go for it.
Maybe u could suprise him?

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Iamblossom · 21/12/2020 19:10

@scarletqueen yes indeed. He knows I love it and miss it and we have been known now and again, usually in the kitchen, seems a common theme Grin

Romemarie · 21/12/2020 19:14

Yes! Everyday and even more when we have sex.
Couldn’t live without that intimacy in a relationship.

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 19:21

@Iamblossom
Sounds to me like you both want it back
Now You have no choice but to snog his face off then tell him you feel sad without it
PS I know what is it with kitchens?

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Iamblossom · 21/12/2020 19:23

I always feel incredibly sexy when we are in supermarkets together.... Xmas Hmm

Maybe it's the fact I can't do anything there that makes me want to....

LastChristmas20 · 21/12/2020 19:26

@Iamblossom

I always feel incredibly sexy when we are in supermarkets together.... Xmas Hmm

Maybe it's the fact I can't do anything there that makes me want to....

I almost wrote this but figured it was weird!!!!

Obviously not this year though sadly.

I wonder why!!!!

Kitchens and supermarkets 😂

scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 19:27

@Iamblossom
I know exactly what u mean but I could never a supermarket
Regarding your DH
Surprising him worked for me
He's not going to say no to a good snog

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scarletqueen · 21/12/2020 19:28

@LastChristmas20
Forget about paris and venice haha

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LastChristmas20 · 21/12/2020 19:52

[quote scarletqueen]@LastChristmas20
Forget about paris and venice haha[/quote]
Hahah you know I've never felt all that sexy in Paris. And I'm there a lot. Hmm

Not had the pleasure of Venice.

Who needs either through right? Tesco is the answer. Or under the gentle hum of an extractor fan.

bottledants · 21/12/2020 19:58

i had no idea that people had sex without kissing.

Showers3 · 21/12/2020 20:01

Occasionally, but rarely. Together 19 years.