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Do you still 'snog' your husband?

215 replies

scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 21:12

We've been together for 6 years and married for 3 but I don't think we've had anything more passionate than a smooch on the lips for almost 2 years.
I'm Interested in what other couples do!?

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StylishMummy · 18/12/2020 22:18

DH & I kiss/snog a couple of times a day minimum

Echobelly · 18/12/2020 22:19

Probably a couple of time a month - not as much as DH would like

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 18/12/2020 22:19

Every chance I get 😉

HopeYourHighHorseBucks · 18/12/2020 22:20

Always during sex and randomly throughout the week. It is used mostly as a get the kids to bed as quick as possible sign though.

riotlady · 18/12/2020 22:25

Ive never really liked tongues so we’ve never done much of that, but we kiss passionately pretty regularly, we shared a shower this morning so we were making out a little bit in there

OkPedro · 18/12/2020 22:26

I’m single and I miss kissing so much!
Can I ask those that don’t kiss during sex why not?
With exdp kissing with tongues always led to sex (if we could) but always kissed deeply every day

scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 22:42

@StylishMummy
don't think Id have the time for multiple snogs a day
sigh
is that with tongues and all?
cos when I say snog I do mean proper tongue action

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StylishMummy · 18/12/2020 22:45

Yes we WFH full time together so usually have a snog while we're making lunch then again in the evening/before bed. Leads to sex 2-3 times a week on average

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 18/12/2020 22:45

What no snoggage during the sexy time?! We don't snog every time but pretty much every time. We occasionally snog outside of sex but l have to be careful as be takes this aa a wink and a nod, the randy sod, and sometimes l just want a snog. Been together 18 years married for 10.

scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 22:50

@riotlady
wow! that's romantic
you go girl!

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MissSmiley · 18/12/2020 22:51

@Scarletqueen how can you have sex with no snogging? That what I call prosititute sex

InFiveMins · 18/12/2020 22:52

Not unless during sex.

The thought of snogging at any other time makes me feel weird. Ok for teenagers but if you're grown adults it's just strange.

AutoIncorrect · 18/12/2020 22:54

Yes love a good snog in the kitchen when we’re cooking dinner or doing the washing up together. He does this thing we’re he comes up behind me and nuzzles into my neck. Gives me the fanny gallops something rotten, then snogging ensues.

scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 22:58

@im5050
ahhh
that sounds lovely that's how I want to be in 21yrs
how do get him to kiss you like that daily?

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ShalomToYouJackie · 18/12/2020 22:58

Interesting first post, asking people to talk about snogging their husbands 😁

htbzLlhcR · 18/12/2020 23:00

@LastChristmas20

Yes.

90% of that during foreplay/sex though.

But occasionally in we do randomly too. For some reason usually in the kitchen.

Haha, exactly this. Always during sex, and occasionally in the kitchen when we're cooking together? 🤷‍♀️
scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 23:02

@ShalomToYouJackie
not my first post just changed my username
I'm just wondering if I'm missing out thats all

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scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 23:06

@MissSmiley
not a hooker I swear!
we just focus on the act instead
and his mouth might be busy. Wink

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scarletqueen · 18/12/2020 23:08

@LadyTiredWinterBottom2
Im afraid not during bedroom time.

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im5050 · 18/12/2020 23:09

scarletqueen
I don’t really think about it I just kiss him 😂 or he will kiss me
Even if we are in bed reading / watching videos we are normally touching each others body’s in someway

We always kiss properly when going asleep and cuddle into each other .
Couldn’t imagine having sex and not doing proper passionate kissing either it would just seem so cold and clinical .

Zoflorabore · 18/12/2020 23:10

I miss proper kissing soooooo much.

It’s massively underrated. I would actually class it as a hobbyGrin

Chickychickydodah · 18/12/2020 23:11

Nope but kiss often

weegiemum · 18/12/2020 23:12

Every day, several times a day, without fail. Sends the teenagers scurrying for cover Grin

Married 26 years. Except when he works away for a weekend, we never miss a chance!

june2007 · 18/12/2020 23:13

Not often my husband doeas not like. (and never has liked.)Kisses. He says they spread germs which they do. We do still kiss but not often snog.

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 18/12/2020 23:17

@june2007 romantic!

I need to snog. Otherwise sex feels too impersonal.

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