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"Dementors" and anti dementors are just as bad as each other

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Jingstohang · 19/06/2020 10:27

I'm sick of seeing the self righteous "anti dementors" calling others dementors because they want to stick to the guidelines/social distancing/not licking walls.

If you don't believe we should all be totally back to normal yet then you're attacked as a dementor.

I think there's a middle ground of being sensible, taking precautions and being aware there is still risk. But the anti- dementor crowd think that's being hugely negative and living in fear.

I'm sick of it. Both extremes are as bad as each other.

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Bollss · 19/06/2020 23:06

I don't think it's decent leadership at all. I think she's making a stand about how special Scotland is and how they have to be different, and better (not their education or welfare tho eh) but at the same time asking to be propped up financially

If is obvious she gives not a shit about her people only about getting her point across.

Jingstohang · 19/06/2020 23:07

Each to their own. As I said, I'm not getting into it.

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PumbaasCucumbas · 19/06/2020 23:14

It did me so much good at the beginning of lockdown, worried about job/kids etc but being made to feel that my kids mental health etc didn’t matter at all because people I don’t know were dying.

Of course that’s terribly sad and we all obey the rules to try to protect those people, but when you can’t see friends/family IRL to chat and process the things around you and the media are obsessed with corona death figures etc, it was so helpful to hear some sane, rational, sympathetic voices. Since I’ve gone back to work I haven’t looked there, but there was a time when I was feeling low that it really helped.

Khione · 19/06/2020 23:21

@Jingstohang

Regulars on the threads don't use it off the thread.

I conceded that about 4 pages ago Wink

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Khione · 19/06/2020 23:37

@Jingstohang I really think you are more like us than against us.

Different sides maybe but definitely for discussion and acceptance rather than obscenities shouting down the opposition

Ibeingbornawomananddistressed · 19/06/2020 23:50

@dowser well said

Teateaandmoretea · 20/06/2020 09:28

Each to their own. As I said, I'm not getting into it.

It isn’t a dangerous cult. This makes it sound way more exciting than it actually is Grin

But up to you totally. If you ever want to lurk or need to ask some sensible people something where you know no one will call you a selfish murderer then you are always welcome.

Dowser · 20/06/2020 10:47

Very true Jingsto
Just wondering which post of mine got deleted and why
Sending me to look at some guidelines
Doesn’t help me mnhq

Jingstohang · 20/06/2020 11:51

@Teateaandmoretea

Each to their own. As I said, I'm not getting into it.

It isn’t a dangerous cult. This makes it sound way more exciting than it actually is Grin

But up to you totally. If you ever want to lurk or need to ask some sensible people something where you know no one will call you a selfish murderer then you are always welcome.

That was in reference to feelings on nicola sturgeon Smile
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Teateaandmoretea · 20/06/2020 11:56

😂😂😂 that makes a lot more sense

Pianostrings · 20/06/2020 12:03

I've been lurking and it's helped me so much

chocolatesweets · 02/07/2020 08:13

Where's the new AD thread please?

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