This thread is compulsive yet bonkers. If you moved to this country to be with the man you loved, knowing very few people here, then the crap the press say, the comments on websites etc, are bound to be what you perceive that the British public think of you. So it's no surprise that H & M feel that she was hated by the country - who was standing up for her?
If it was true that William was having an affair and Meghan was thrown under a bus to distract from it, then no doubt H & M would be upset.
It had come out in the past that H was often thrown under the bus in the press to cover things that W did. Could it not be the case that M has come along and said "this is really not ok, you don't have to live like this"? Who was on his side until then?
Then you have PA with his disgusting behaviour, and even the Queen biblically supporting him and refusing to let the Met investigate. Also, PMofK wearing that Blackamore broach to the big dinner that M was invited to.
Why the hell would any woman with a vague sense of self respect want anything to do with the in-laws in those circumstances? If she posted on MN she would be told to go NC and to protect her child. If her husband didn't back her, she would be told she had a DH problem.
Maybe, just maybe, Meghan has provided Harry with a fresh set of eyes and he has realised how deeply fucked up his family is, and how toxic our press are? Maybe she has given him the courage to act on what he said he wanted to do - live a normal.life. Perhaps now he has his own son, he can't understand how he was ever made to walk behind his mums coffin, supposedly to minimise the chances of PC being attacked. Age 12 and used as effectively a human shield.
Perhaps NONE of this is Meghans doing, except giving him the courage and love to say "this isn't ok"?
Or, you know, you could get out more pitchforks for her to add to the ones the public waves before this announcement.