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Small chocolate bar

352 replies

SoapOperaFamily · 17/11/2019 14:43

Who is BU here? We have a houseful of family today. DD went to the shops and offered to buy everyone a packet of sweets. Person A asked for a small chocolate bar, Person B said they didn’t want anything. DD got home and handed out the sweets. Person B asked Person A if they could break their bar of chocolate into 2 and give them a piece. Person A said they would like to eat this particular bar themselves, but there was more chocolate in the cupboard. Person B said they wanted a piece of Person A’s chocolate in particular. Person B was told they could have ordered their own bar if they wanted one, but Person B wanted a piece of Person A’s chocolate because they didn’t want a whole bar. Words were exchanged on both sides. Should Person A have shared, or should Person B have ordered their own bar?

OP posts:
Cataline · 17/11/2019 14:44

Person B sounds like a dick!

JonSlow · 17/11/2019 14:44

Person B is in the wrong.

firawla · 17/11/2019 14:46

B is wrong and sounds like a pain in the arse

coconutpie · 17/11/2019 14:47

Person B is a dick!!

ClaraThePigeon · 17/11/2019 14:48

B is a dick. I hate people who do that.

BlobbyTheLump · 17/11/2019 14:48

Person B is an idiot.

(I bet B is Male too.)

DaveCoachesgavemetheclap · 17/11/2019 14:49

B is BU.

Sexnotgender · 17/11/2019 14:50

Person B is the arsehole who orders a salad then eats all your chips!
Don’t be person B.

ThePants999 · 17/11/2019 14:52

To all the person Bs out there: bloody stop it.

krankykittykat · 17/11/2019 14:52

Are you person A or B?

peanutbutterkid · 17/11/2019 14:53

Is Person B a 4yr old?

Elle7rose · 17/11/2019 14:54

B clearly is being unreasonable, particularly if there's more chocolate in the cupboard!

FungusTheToegyman · 17/11/2019 14:54

Person B is definitely being unreasonable! They had the option to have a bar, didn't want one but think they then have the right to demand some of person A's chocolate? Definitely a CF

crispysausagerolls · 17/11/2019 14:56

I HATE PEOPLE WHO DO THIS! ORDER YOUR OWN FUCKING CHOCOLATE BAR!!!!!!!!!! Arrrghfhfjfjfhf 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

I would like a chocolate bar now

fascinated · 17/11/2019 14:56

Unless B is under 5, B is unreasonable. And even if B was under 5, the adults should have foreseen this problem and bought some extra just in case !

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 17/11/2019 14:58

Person B unreasonable. If they didn't want a whole bar they could have saved some for another time.

Josette77 · 17/11/2019 15:05

I wouldn't share.

marvellousnightforamooncup · 17/11/2019 15:14

B didn't want anything so doesn't get anything.

PurpleDaisies · 17/11/2019 15:17

B was clearly in the wrong.

Groovinpeanut · 17/11/2019 15:18

Person B!
If they chose not to have anything then that's their problem. Even if they didn't want a whole chocolate at the time, they could have brought one and saved the other half for later.

Ladyratterley · 17/11/2019 15:18

Person B is a twat.
I had this with an ex once when I was driving & popped into the petrol station. I asked if he wanted a chocolate bar & he said no. I bought myself a snickers. When I got in the car he ripped it open & shoved half of it in his gob. I went nuts. He said I was crazy and had issues with food.
Still makes me mad when I think about it now. The only issues I have with food are when greedy people eat a treat I was anticipating eating by myself!

Ladyratterley · 17/11/2019 15:19

I also bet you are A & that B is male!

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 17/11/2019 15:19

I'll bet Pa is a child and Pb is a PITA relative.

Pinkblanket · 17/11/2019 15:19

B is an idiot

Soubriquet · 17/11/2019 15:19

Let me guess....you’re A and your other half is B

Person B is out of order

Whilst it would be nice for A to share, B was offered a chance for their own bar AND there is other chocolate in the cupboard