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Mark Ronson has identified as sapiosexual

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Idontgetit101 · 19/09/2019 20:34

NC for this. I just read that Mark Ronson has identified as sapiosexual meaning he is attracted to intelligence. Is this a gender? I recently met someone who identifies as non-binary, she (this is one of her pronouns) is a lovely person, but I found that difficult and now this. AIBU to think I'm really out of touch and I just cant get my heard around it?

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TopBitchoftheWitches · 19/09/2019 22:14

@Funghi

Does that work the same for the minor attracted males?

Cantstopgrazing · 19/09/2019 22:17

carly2803,

i am old fashioned, we have men,women, transgender.thats it

Here, I've fixed that for you:

i am old fashioned, we have men and women.thats it.

BillywilliamV · 19/09/2019 22:19

I seem to be attracted to men who play golf, does this make me a fetishist?

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 19/09/2019 22:19

The question is - will the intelligent people like HIM?

kalinkafoxtrot45 · 19/09/2019 22:20

He fancies people wot r good at sumz.

Seriously, any self-declared “sapiosexual” must surely be doomed to a life of unrequited passion. No person with a brain in their head would shag them.

ImGoingToBangYourHeadsTogether · 19/09/2019 22:21

i am old fashioned, we have men and women.thats it. Noooo! You forgot the real small furry creatures from Alpha Centauri.

Musicforsnorks · 19/09/2019 22:30

Mumsnet is fucking embarrassing lately.

ElizaPancakes · 19/09/2019 22:33

Fuck sake, he is old enough to know better.

doublebarrellednurse · 19/09/2019 22:33

Mumsnet is fucking embarrassing lately.

Yes. Very. Someone pass me the gas lamp. We appear to be in the dark ages.

Hey1256 · 19/09/2019 22:36

The problem is we are promoting labels. I think society needs to move away from labels, it's labels that make stereotypes even worse.

It's hindering not helping society

Tonnerre · 19/09/2019 22:38

i am old fashioned, we have men and women.thats it.

Really? We don't have heterosexuals, homosexuals, lesbians? News to me.

BarbRoyle · 19/09/2019 22:39

They say opposites attract

BarbaraStrozzi · 19/09/2019 22:40

I think it's a fancy way of saying he's an intellectual snob.

cutebutscary · 19/09/2019 22:42

What kind of new fresh hell is this ?
I'm notwatosexual ..... this means I'm not attracted to twats - like Mark ronson 🤣🤣

OverByYer · 19/09/2019 22:44

I’m a chefosexual, I like men who can cook.

What a load of nonsense.

waterjungle · 19/09/2019 22:45

Do you think he has a wank bank folder on his computer filled with pictures of Einstein, Ada Lovelace, Stephen Hawking and Mary Beard? ffs

Armi · 19/09/2019 22:52

The trouble with all this labelling, is you end up looking like a right twat. Take, for example, my ‘vegan’ sister.....who isn’t actually vegan, just prefers vegetarian food but sometimes likes a scone with butter or a bacon roll. By telling everyone she is a vegan she makes herself look like a right twit, whereas if she just quietly ordered the veggie/vegan option no-one would turn a hair, as we all do it. I regularly eat vegan meals, but wouldn’t declare myself a vegan, as I’m not. It’s the same with these poor fools who wake up one day and decide they are women (not, as someone astutely noted the other day, menopausal women running around working full time and looking after elderly relatives/demanding teenagers) or that they are only attracted to asparagus and have to make A HUGE ANNOUNCEMENT. One day they may wake up and find themselves attracted to nectarines or really thick but beautiful people with lovely legs....but they’ve painted themselves into a corner and now need a fuckton of therapy to make peace with the notion that they like stupid people with nice arses.

The world is insane and we all need something else to focus on. How about climate change? That seems to me more significant than some idiots fretting about whether they prefer to fuck Nobel Prize winners or vacuous pretties.

PickAChew · 19/09/2019 22:53

The majority of my partners have been Northern. Is there a label for that?

ElizaPancakes · 19/09/2019 22:53

Mumsnet is fucking embarrassing lately

Yes. Very. Someone pass me the gas lamp. We appear to be in the dark ages

Because we don't accept the ever expanding range of genders and/or labels applied to what used to be called 'personality'?

What is the actual point in 'identifying' as sapiosexual? Really?

PS @Tonnerre - sexual orientations are not the same as males and females.

PickAChew · 19/09/2019 22:54

And Brian would definitely come under that label, too, whatever it is.

PeriComoToes · 19/09/2019 22:54

Well that's not very inclusive. Bigot!

Armi · 19/09/2019 22:58

i do think modern life leaves some people with too much time on their hands. Am pretty sure if we were all scratching a living in the 8th century we wouldn’t be pondering whether we were sapiosexual or really men who should be women who are really men who are women with penises.

GothMummy · 19/09/2019 23:01

Why is everyone so desperate to put themselves in boxes these days?

donquixotedelamancha · 19/09/2019 23:02

Mark Ronson has identified as sapiosexual

To be precise he is heterosapiosexual. He is attracted to people of the opposite intelligence to himself.

Charles11 · 19/09/2019 23:07

Really? We don't have heterosexuals, homosexuals, lesbians? News to me.

Heterosexuals, homosexuals and lesbians are either men or women, aren’t they? Confused