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Mark Ronson has identified as sapiosexual

219 replies

Idontgetit101 · 19/09/2019 20:34

NC for this. I just read that Mark Ronson has identified as sapiosexual meaning he is attracted to intelligence. Is this a gender? I recently met someone who identifies as non-binary, she (this is one of her pronouns) is a lovely person, but I found that difficult and now this. AIBU to think I'm really out of touch and I just cant get my heard around it?

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Luzina · 19/09/2019 21:50

I thought sapiosexual meant a person who is sexually aroused by a person's intelligence. That's it. It's not really a sexual orientation. And its not some 'new' sexual identity.

doublebarrellednurse · 19/09/2019 21:50

The world has gone mad. Who the fuck cares who anyone is attracted to?!?!?!

Given the rates of hate crimes and murders of the LGBTQIA+ community then lots of people it would seem

zebrasdontwearbras · 19/09/2019 21:50

Ridiculous.

Although if it really is a thing, I think I have it. I find intelligent men incredibly attractive.

But then I find lots of other things attractive too - like blue eyes & dark hair. Men that aren't sexist twats. That sort of thing.

boujie · 19/09/2019 21:51

Surely it's a sexuality not a gender?

chomalungma · 19/09/2019 21:51

Are there levels of sapiosexuality?

Intelligence is relative. Is it relative to you? How is intelligence defined?

Is it Brian Cox level of intelligence? Are you allowed to be attracted to people who are not intelligent?

ImGoingToBangYourHeadsTogether · 19/09/2019 21:51

These people are so boring. As for 'letting people be what they want to be', it's these people who need labels for every little thing that are bad at that: the rest of us can cope with difference.

Baguetteaboutit · 19/09/2019 21:51

Are sapiosexuals the subject of many hate crimes?

BanKittenHeels · 19/09/2019 21:54

I like eating chips, I wonder how I can make this something that oppresses me?

Solihooley · 19/09/2019 21:54

I wonder if they ( intelligent people) are attracted to him?

That's why he married a supermodel. Evidently he lost Mary Beard's number

Best comments ever, made me laugh out loud.

GladAllOver · 19/09/2019 21:56

This thread is sapiophobic. Reported!

zebrasdontwearbras · 19/09/2019 21:56

Are sapiosexuals the subject of many hate crimes?

Ha. I sincerely doubt it.

Mary Beard comment wins the internet today Grin

AFistfulofDolores1 · 19/09/2019 21:56

I'm a sapiosexual. I'm mucking about.

The80sweregreat · 19/09/2019 21:59

I'm a ' normaloldsadsapian'
So there.

PhilSwagielka · 19/09/2019 22:00

Sapiosexuality is pretentious bullshit. Sexual orientation is about what gender you're into, not characteristics. Liking intelligence is not a sexual orientation.

Hopoindown31 · 19/09/2019 22:00

Surely just virtue signalling? I have a PhD so I'll go and tell DP he is sapiosexual.

carly2803 · 19/09/2019 22:03

what a knob.

i am old fashioned, we have men,women, transgender.

thats it.

I wish some days i could identify as a fucking tree to fit in tho....

DracarysThis · 19/09/2019 22:05

My mum asked me if this meant "when the man goes up into the man?" Hmm Confused

I'm wondering why the hell she is asking me!

BertrandRussell · 19/09/2019 22:05

I am assuming, until priced otherwise, that he was joking. Trouble is, others will take him seriously.

FindusCrispyPancakes · 19/09/2019 22:06

He obviously saw Sam smith had decided they are an it and saw how much attention they got (I tried not to use he). He wants in on the identifying/labelling publicity, he's realised he's not gay or indeed a woman so it's the best he can come up with, short of identifying as a tree.

The world has gone mad. My head hurts with all this identifying as labelling nonsense. I dread to think how confusing all this is going to be for my children growing up. I'm an adult and I don't understand it Confused.

ThighThighOfthigh · 19/09/2019 22:08

Maybe he meant sepiasexual? Attracted to cuttlefish Phwoooaaarrrr

WhereYouLeftIt · 19/09/2019 22:08

Oh FFS. Everyone has something that they find attractive, be it nice eyes, kindness, the ability to make you laugh, a nice arse, or intelligence - or anything else. That does not make it a sexuality, it makes it something you find attractive. That's it. That's all. FFS!

Contraceptionismyfriend · 19/09/2019 22:08

He's got to be taking the piss out of Sam Smith. This can't be serious

Contraceptionismyfriend · 19/09/2019 22:10

LGBTQIA+
😂😂

Themyscira · 19/09/2019 22:12

The only place this could possibly matter is your Tinder profile, and nobody reads those anyway. So...

Cantstopgrazing · 19/09/2019 22:13

@DeNiroDeFaro, it's quite a new word still though. Seems to have originated on social media so people can feel special/different (like most other crap).

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