To think a teacher should not call a pupil an idiot!

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Year 7, ds was messing with some magnet balls which he'd taken in without me knowing (he's not taking them into school again).
He got given a warning, and then second warning which means detention. I have no issue with this, he should do as he's told, but my issue is, he asked if he should take his stuff with him (at the end of the lesson when he'd been referred), the teacher replied "take your paper you idiot".
I have actually emailed the school to ask, and just been brushed off really. Aibu?

Call the school and ask to speak to the teacher concerned, and take it from there.

Yes YABU - they get called a lot worse than that in my kids high school

Well it probably isnt the best choice of words but it certainly wouldnt be the thing I was most irate about in this.

Brushed off how?

Well, the teacher isn’t wrong if he’s had to be told twice not to do something and still carried on.

I’d be more bothered about the defiance/poor behaviour personally.

Yabu

what are you wanting from the school for this?

Well he was being at idiot

An, even

I'd be concentrating on your child's poor behaviour.

Your child was behaving like an idiot. I'd say he needs to suck it up and learn to do as he's asked.

Cotton wool, get your cotton wool here...

I'd be addressing your son's behaviour, not the teacher's.

I would be more concerned about childs behaviour than the word idiot.

Yabu

Sounds like a bit of an idiot TBH.

I don't deny he was misbehaving, as I said in my post, I have no issue with him being given sanctions for that. I have dealt with the behaviour myself too, but... why should a grown man call an 11 year old an idiot, even if he was being one. I don't agree with someone calling a pupil names!
I spoke to the member of staff that emailed me about it, and said basically what I've said above, and he has just replied with "I completely understand your actions as ds parent".

No, the teacher shouldn’t call a child an idiot.
Even a disrespectful , irritating child who is playing with magnets powerful enough to damage technology around them and who is asking stupid questions.
The teacher should say ‘Yes, you need to take all your belongings with you’ in the same even monotone used to remind travellers.
Whatever thoughts are rampaging through their heads.
Is it his first detention at secondary?

Why is verbal abuse acceptable from a teacher but not a partner? 🤔

@Notsuch
Really? You're ok with that 😬

You need to let this go. Your child was in the wrong. He'll get called a lot worse as he goes through life

He apologised for what the teacher said .... what more do you want?

As I've already stated, I have dealt with the behaviour, I'm certainly no snowflake, I won't have rudeness and bad behaviour, and he knows that.

I'd be OK with a teacher calling my child an idiot if they were being an idiot as yours was.

Wanker, twat, cunt waffle I would kick off about. But not an idiot.

@theknack.
He did not apologise in the slightest.

Well if he didn't say it he has no need to apologise, so I'd concentrate on finding out if he actually said it first.