To be shocked by what ‘friend’ did at my party?

[DannyOD]

Ok, this may be long but I don’t want to drip feed.

I had a ‘Games Night’ on Saturday. My ds (21), his girlfriend (21), dd (19) her boyfriend (21), dd’s best friend (19), her boyfriend (19) me and best friends Mum (in our 40s). I am friendly with this woman but we only met through our Dds and I doubt we would have become friends otherwise.

Anyway, we were playing a silly drinking card game of Dd’s. You had to read instructions off of card and do them. One was grab something beginning with D. I grabbed the dog, ds the door etc when my ‘friend’ reached out and grabbed Dd’s Boyfriends penis!!! He shouted something like Wow - I wasn’t expecting that!!!! And looked a bit awkward. I was mortified but everyone was laughing so I didn’t want to make a scene.

I thought it was totally out of order and if it had been a man doing it to a young girl I am sure everyone would have been horrified!!! Or am I overreacting??

No, that's shocking behaviour. How drunk was she?

That is vile.

I would be keeping my distance from her.

That’s unbelievable.

That is really bad.

Not that drunk - it was quite early on in the evening.

Bit silly

Penis doesn’t start with D? (misses the point)

She's a massive dick for doing that, I bet her dd and dd's bf were
mortified. Cringe!

Eww, that's grim and probably mortifying for the lad.

Disgusting behaviour. As pp said, if it was a man grabbing girl's breasts or something those present (one would hope) would have exclaimed how inappropriate it was. Poor bloke, I wonder how he really feels about what happened?

No you're not overreacting. A 40 something woman sexually assaulting a 21 year old man. From the sound of it though, no one else was particularly bothered.

Not someone you'd want to keep as a friend I imagine.

Ouch!

She sexually assaulted him. YANBU at all.

To be honest I don’t think anyone knew how to react. All of them being so young. Really it was down to me to say something but I didn’t and now I am angry with myself.

Awful

Fair enough you didn't say something a the time but you can text her now and say that was inappropriate and out of order (and sexual assault)

wow - just wow. Not cool.

Bad, really bad. Assault. Nasty.

Not that's disgusting behaviour. Wtf

No

I don't suppose he's called David or Daniel or such like and she meant to grab his arm....?
No, I suppose not. She'd have been mortified.

ILikePaperHat

If a 40 year old man grabbed a 21 year old woman’s breasts had the game been ‘grab something beginning with T’ would you have found it just as funny?

No, his name doesn’t begin with D unfortunately.

Sorry I'm not sure Iv followed it.

Are you saying under the guise of playing a game your 40 year old friend reached out and grabbed a 21 year old man penis in front of his girlfriend (your daughter) and a room full of others?