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To think this is really odd behaviour

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MelbaToast · 28/12/2018 01:40

Been with BF together a while now (about a year). The reason why I'm wondering this is because he has never invited me to his house. Ever. Our whole relationship has taken place from my house and a couple of bars in between our houses, which we go to once a month. He told me this was because he was doing work to his house. The other week I was really direct and asked him when he was going to invite me over and he said when the work is finished, ie, mid 2019. I've driven past his road a couple of times and there is scaffolding outside, so I do believe he's having work done. I just find it really odd that he wouldn't want to show me where he lives. He's also never introduced me to any of his friends (I'm digging my heels in with this one and not introducing him to any of my friends until he initiates).

I think my concern is that he has someone more serious that he doesn't want me to know about.

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Tweety1981 · 04/01/2019 00:27

Sorry just read the rest... well done for confronting the situation. Be brave the right one for you is out there .x

Magenta46 · 04/01/2019 00:33

OP I really feel for you. You must give yourself time to get over this. Let your friends and family know what has happened and accept any support you are offered,. Hoping 2019 brings you much happiness.

Kione · 15/01/2019 09:54

Never. But I play The Sims almost every night. The computer is in the living room tho so he is there watching tv and we still talk.

Kione · 15/01/2019 09:55

Wrong thread! Sorry Blush

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