To wonder if anyone else will admit to being a soap dodger?

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I often can’t be arsed. Dh has to prompt me. Anyone else?

No that's gross and kinda disrespectful to the person sleeping with you

No - you'll be on your own there love.

Only when my mental health is low. And then it’s a vicious circle. I feel shit when I don’t shower and then I don’t shower because I feel shit. I try to shower every day to keep myself on track.

I don’t know what you mean? You don’t like hand washing or bathing? If that’s the case YABU as that’s grotesque. I would leave my partner if I had to prompt them to clean themselves.

Eh no. I shower every day as i respect myself and my DH.

Both really. I rarely wash my hands. I do shower but as and when. I’m not in a fixed routine.

Were you bathed regularly as a child?

You don’t wash your hands??? 😫

Some days I do my house work in my PJs and then get showered and dressed an hour before DH gets home. I am lazy and smelly in secret.

FWIW I suffer from depression and on my lowest days I skip showering (which makes me feel grim) but to not wash your hands is nasty. Sorry.

I have to habe a bath every day. the only time
I havnt see when iv been severely depressed and even then I was on my own.

Another person has to prompt an adult to shower?
Awful.

You shower "as and when"? How frequently is that? I think it necessary to shower every single day, usually once a day at least. I wash my hair every day too (and it's short)

Feeling clean straight out of the shower is one of my favourite things. I do know some people who claim to go for days without one and I simply can't understand why but I guess we're all different.

You do know you will smell to other people. You may be unaware but others will think you reek.

Well yeah hrt, it’s generally my hair he notices and says ffs get in the shower

I do wash my hands just not very often!

If I’m not in the shower in the morning it’s a sign my MH is not good, at all.

I'm guessing you're pretty healthy as well op

That’s vile.

how far a apart is it normally?

you will smell, was in this heat.

in the winter I could see every other day at a push.
hair doesn't need cleaning every day though.

I've showered every day for the past six years. It's not a virtue though, it's unnecessary and a waste of water, but I just can't stand going to bed not feeling completely clean.

I shower every other day. I got in the habit whilst pregnant as the smell of water made me very ill.

I'll also admit to wearing clothes 2 days in a row (not pants) particularly if working from home.

We never showered every day growing up.

I don't always shower every day, i didn't bother yesterday but I will today. I wash my hands a lot though.

It varies, in the heatwave I did generally shower most days tbf. Heatwave is well and truly over in my part of the U.K. I think I probably average at four times a week.

If my dh had to tell me to shower, I’d be pretty mortified at myself tbh.