To wonder if anyone else will admit to being a soap dodger?

[blueberrycoconut]

I often can’t be arsed. Dh has to prompt me. Anyone else?

I do wash my hands after a shit. Not after every piss though.

Why are you proud of it? What are you gaining?!

I’m not sure 4 times a week qualifies you as a soap dodger, it sounds passable (although personally I wouldn’t be able to tolerate that).

Hand washing, what do you mean ‘not that often’?

Do you wash them after using the loo?
Before preparing food?
After preparing food?

I’m not proud of it huggy. I suppose I was just wondering if anyone else would admit to not showering loads.

No candle

I wash my hands when they feel dirty. That’s it.

"Dh just says ffs, get in the bath if I need to. It’s not a big deal"

I bet it feels like a big deal to him.

Why wouldn’t you wash your hands after using the toilet? It’s not exactly onerous, is it?

That is very unhygienic. Why on earth do you not wash your hands after a wee? It's so selfish and inconsiderate.

You seem weirdly proud of the fact that, basically, you stink a bit.

Also, mentioning the fact that your DH has to prompt you sometimes followed by lots of 😁 is just bizarre.

Is this a reverse? Do you have to tell your husband he’s minging?

I have no answers OP, but others will try to help.

I have to say though, I thought you were referring to the fact that you dodge TV soaps, and DH wanted you to watch them!

"I do wash my hands after a shit. Not after every piss though."

oh wait. it's school holidays....

Is telling you to wash then you need to wash more often. He’s mentioning it because it is a problem. It’s already a problem by the time he is saying it.

Just because your hands don't feel dirty, doesn't mean they aren't

I pee loads Captain, I think I’d have no skin left on my hands tbh.

I don’t think he’s bothered woman

if he is telling you to wash..

I shower every other day. I don't smell. If you use deodorant and have clean clothes and underwear daily (as I do), you really shouldn't smell showering every other day unless you have a health problem that makes you sweat a lot, or incontinence or something.

I wash my hands loads though

does your husband bath ir shower every day?

do you brush your teeth every day? or only when they feel dirty?

are you and dh very touchy?

Womaningreen

"I do wash my hands after a shit. Not after every piss though."

oh wait. it's school holidays....

Indeed. 😂🤣

Disgusting not washing your hands after a wee. Your hands are near your vagina. Crazy.

I don’t wash as often as others. Some days I just have a sink wash.

I’m not depressed I just can’t be arsed and don’t think we need to wash as often as is suggested.

Touchy as in do we touch a lot or quick to take offence?

The telling me to wash is quite jocular and good natured. I tell him he stinks as well.

I don’t buy.

I also thought this was going to be about whether you use toiletries or not, I was all ready to say I agree because I use a skincare cloth and water on its own!

However, that's not the case here. I think it's fine to wash 4x a week, I probably shower 5/6 days out of 7 most of the time and I'm constantly washing my hands at work but not as often at home.

I would be mortified if my DH had to point out to me that I need to wash though and I'd worry if I had to tell him to.