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To wonder where the hell he is?

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TheHeightSupremacist · 14/04/2018 20:59

Been seeing someone for a couple of months, at least twice a week but it’s been nearly every day over the past couple of weeks. He has been really into me, cooked for me, taken me away numerous times and said the l word very early on.

We had plans to go to his friends birthday tonight, spoke to him earlier and everything was fine. Text later to let him know what time I would be over, not read and no reply, we are now 2 and a half hours after we were supposed to meet and I haven’t heard from him since 3.30pm. No messages read, no answer to my calls. Getting a bit concerned, where could he be?!

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Beckyd1 · 14/04/2018 21:00

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Ronnyhotdog · 14/04/2018 21:01

Does he own a parrot?

joopy79 · 14/04/2018 21:02

Aren't you meant to be at his? Maybe he is frantically tidying and hasn't seen his phone.

AnneProtheroe · 14/04/2018 21:02

Sorry you're going through this. Flowers

Tropicana123 · 14/04/2018 21:03

I'd go over to his house ?

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TheHeightSupremacist · 14/04/2018 21:04

I went to his, no one was in ......

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KinkyAfro · 14/04/2018 21:06

Oh dear, doesn't sound good. Has he been online at all?

AdaColeman · 14/04/2018 21:06

He's gone for an early doors birthday drink with his mate and lost track of the time?

KinkyAfro · 14/04/2018 21:06

And do you know where the friend lives? Could you go there?

ADishBestEatenCold · 14/04/2018 21:07

Do you know where the birthday friend lives and, if so, have you contacted him/her?

WonderWhippet · 14/04/2018 21:08

Beckyd1 you don't have a tree.

StealthPolarBear · 14/04/2018 21:08

What are the parrot comments about

ZibbidooZibbidooZibbidoo · 14/04/2018 21:08

Parrot?? Confused

KinkyAfro · 14/04/2018 21:09

There's a thread about a man in a tree

ZibbidooZibbidooZibbidoo · 14/04/2018 21:09

Oh. Thanks kinky

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 14/04/2018 21:10

Becky, give it a rest, you've been rumbled on your own thread.

Iflyaway · 14/04/2018 21:11

said the l word very early on.

Never trust a man who uses the I love you early on.

Unless there's an emergency AND he's lost his phone, I reckon he's decided not to take you.... --because there's another "l word" around.... sorry.

Whatever. It's a shitty thing to do to someone and see it as a lucky escape so early on!

Tistheseason17 · 14/04/2018 21:12

Or he's actually a controlling BF who makes plans with you to stop you going out with your friends, then goes out with his mates... He knows the "missus" Is safely tucked away whilst he has fun...
Yep, I dated one of those...
Or he's gotten drunk and forgotten about you.... yeah, that's not ok either...

PlasticWatch · 14/04/2018 21:15

Whatever. It's a shitty thing to do to someone and see it as a lucky escape so early on!

This sorry op

TotHappy · 14/04/2018 21:16

Yeah, he could've been in ab accident r something obvs. Really hope not. Not much you can do unless you know where the friends birthday is/their number?

Really really hope he isn't ghosting you, that's horrible.

Emma198 · 14/04/2018 21:19

Something similar happened to me once. We were at mine and he got a phone call, said his mum wanted a lift to Asda, never saw him again. He messaged me a week later to say it wasn't his mum on the phone asking for a lift it was his ex saying she wanted to get back with him. The whole thing was very bizarre.

BettyBaggins · 14/04/2018 21:19

Eeek, hope mystery solved soon!

somersetsoul · 14/04/2018 21:20

Have you called him?

stayanotherday · 14/04/2018 21:21

He's stuck in a tree with an Ipad looking for his parrot, don't forget to take him some shoes and wine!

Oysterbabe · 14/04/2018 21:21

Maybe he's lost his phone.