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To wonder where the hell he is?

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TheHeightSupremacist · 14/04/2018 20:59

Been seeing someone for a couple of months, at least twice a week but it’s been nearly every day over the past couple of weeks. He has been really into me, cooked for me, taken me away numerous times and said the l word very early on.

We had plans to go to his friends birthday tonight, spoke to him earlier and everything was fine. Text later to let him know what time I would be over, not read and no reply, we are now 2 and a half hours after we were supposed to meet and I haven’t heard from him since 3.30pm. No messages read, no answer to my calls. Getting a bit concerned, where could he be?!

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AnnieAnoniMouser · 14/04/2018 23:14

Thanks BBCEssex. It’s good to know that there are still others around whose comprehension skills & sense of humour are still intact.

AmazingGrace16 · 14/04/2018 23:14

hmmm I would phone his mum in the morning if there's still no news.

mummymummums · 14/04/2018 23:15

I think you need to gain access to his house - or is his car gone?

BetterEatCheese · 14/04/2018 23:15

Very worrying, hope you find him soon

gingergenius · 14/04/2018 23:15

How odd op! Thanks

Wishiwasonholiday1 · 14/04/2018 23:15

I hope you find out soon. Really odd, could he have got caught up with other friends and completely forgotten? Maybe lost his phone/had it stolen and not been able to contact you. I hope you get news soon.

AmazingGrace16 · 14/04/2018 23:21

I would get back in touch with some of his friends and ask if they know where he might be. What's his mental health like? Without necessarily assuming anything when a friend went missing before I included a local suicide spot as a place to check just in case.

buddahsitter · 14/04/2018 23:21

Take the hint and get out now its a sign

rainbowstardrops · 14/04/2018 23:27

I'd be worried too.
The likelihood however, is that he's gone off with someone or got trashed with someone.
Hope he turns up though so that you can stop worrying.

backsackcraic · 14/04/2018 23:40

Oh gosh I hope he's ok, especially as nobody else heard from him. I think you've done all you can for now, try again in the morning and then go back round x

SundayGirls · 14/04/2018 23:41

It's an odd situation, but it's still probably more likely than not that he is doing something else, (possibly with someone else, it can't be ruled out unfortunately), than incapacitated.

Either that, or fallen asleep. Or says he did.

Hope you get some positive news soon OP.

overnightangel · 14/04/2018 23:48

Sounds like you’ve done all you can, have you asked one of his friends at birthday meal to contact you if you if they hear anything?

IronicWittyUsername · 14/04/2018 23:52

How odd. Hope you're ok

whatapickl · 14/04/2018 23:52

I would wake his mum

vjg13 · 14/04/2018 23:54

His ex or not so ex has turned up for crisis talks?

MonaTheMoaner · 14/04/2018 23:56

How strange. I hope he's okay and you get answers asap!

DamnWhyAreAllTheUsernamesTaken · 14/04/2018 23:56

Hope you’re ok OP and you hear something soon

Supermagicsmile · 14/04/2018 23:57

Hope you find him soon!

Benandhollysmum · 14/04/2018 23:59

Awful for you, if you’ve not heard from him then he said blew you off..don’t let him do it to you again, you know what to do.

Appuskidu · 15/04/2018 00:01

That sounds worrying-I’d ring his mum.

Mookie81 · 15/04/2018 00:05

Pm

bettytaghetti · 15/04/2018 00:06

Do you know what he was supposed to be doing today before seeing you? Could it be somewhere/something that he's got stuck, no mobile signal etc. Any reports of accidents near where you are on local news?
Think it very strange that he wouldn't be at his friend's birthday celebration, even if he was having second thoughts about you.

OliviaStabler · 15/04/2018 00:06

Went off drinking and got drunk I suspect. Fast asleep on a mates sofa.

AtSea1979 · 15/04/2018 00:09

Most likely explanation is he’s gone off with someone else.

overduemamma · 15/04/2018 00:13

Any update OP? X

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