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Softzilla: You play; you pay!

951 replies

Unreasonableunreasonableness · 11/04/2018 19:07

Before you all get excited: no party yet (I was trying to keep when it was vague so more anonymous but i give up) . I have had a message from softzilla.
'So are we calm enough to sort this oot for tomorrow? 'Hmm

OP posts:
Sparklingbrook · 11/04/2018 19:08

Backstory?

Aeroflotgirl · 11/04/2018 19:09

Don't respond to her, and be politely cool tomorrow.

Anewhope · 11/04/2018 19:10

Oh @SparklingBrook you missed a cracker. There's a very full, whole other thread with the backstory. Can't remember what it's called, I'm sure someone will jump in with a link or the name of it soon...

HistoriaTrixie · 11/04/2018 19:10

Oh ho! I love the patronizing "are we" she threw in there. Somehow I don't think she's quite coming at this from a place of calm and humility. Grin

Cleanermaidcook · 11/04/2018 19:10

Ignore, how condescending are We calm enough! Cf

Sparklingbrook · 11/04/2018 19:11

Thanks Anewhope I will have a search.

Fruitcorner123 · 11/04/2018 19:11

Please can skmeone link the original thread. I am intrigued.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 11/04/2018 19:11

Sparkling follow on from the 'To not pay even though I invited her' thread.

IronicWittyUsername · 11/04/2018 19:11

Wtf I need a link. This sounds awesome

SoftzillaPissedHerPants · 11/04/2018 19:12

First thread - www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3212527-For-not-paying-even-though-I-invited

aaaaargghhhhelpme · 11/04/2018 19:12

Oh good god. Ignore her!

How's party friend? (Waves in case she's still reading!) the most important thing is you have people on side who know the full story.

Are you going with the immense strategy of arriving early and paying before she sees?! I would pay good money to watch that.

Seriously. I'm sure it will all be fine. Awkward for her. She's trying to shit stir. But I think her craziness is now so full on everyone will have the measure of her. Stay calm. Sending Gin for the after party

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 11/04/2018 19:13

And Shock at that message! I'd reply 'I don't know, are we?'

IronicWittyUsername · 11/04/2018 19:13

Thank you. I'll make a cuppa and read GrinBrew

SoftzillaPissedHerPants · 11/04/2018 19:13

Just ignore the batshit loon. Everyone knows about her now.

Sparklingbrook · 11/04/2018 19:13

Thanks, I too will boil the kettle and have a read.

ladymariner · 11/04/2018 19:15

On the basis of that message alone, I'd say not!! How very passive aggressive! Can we have a link to other thread please?

starrystarryeyes · 11/04/2018 19:16

Watching the thread!

SoftzillaPissedHerPants · 11/04/2018 19:18

ladymariner I linked to it a bit further up^

Kirta · 11/04/2018 19:18

She's got more front that Brighton! I reckon she will be more concerned about tomorrow than anyone! Although... probably not!

bimbobaggins · 11/04/2018 19:18

There’s a link on

Iloveacurry · 11/04/2018 19:19

We?! God she’s patronising!

NoHunsHereHun · 11/04/2018 19:20
Shock
AsAProfessionalPenis · 11/04/2018 19:21

Ignore
It will drive her crazy Easter Grin

TaliZorahVasNormandy · 11/04/2018 19:22

Text back, "Nope!" That'll annoy her.

But really, just ignore her.

Idbemonica1 · 11/04/2018 19:23

Ooh it's tomorrow, have never been so excited about a party that i'm not going to. Good luck OPGrin