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CF Friend & the antique ram castrator Part 2

504 replies

SilverBirchTree · 08/12/2017 23:03

New thread, will update when I hear from DH of CF

OP posts:
MiddleClassProblem · 09/12/2017 15:11

Especially a CF as to me it’s unrelatable behaviour

Catsize · 09/12/2017 15:20

She has sold it, he has ‘bought’ it and then two of them have the profits. Former ram castrator FIL, meanwhile, is completely oblivious. He’s never heard about it.

Bear in mind that DH of CF is perfectly willing to defraud others re:fake proposals for gain etc. He is not an angel by any stretch. He’s now ‘in on it’ but trying to keep the peace.

And CF will get her handbag.

HidingBehindTheWallpaper · 09/12/2017 15:22

I don’t get this.
Originally you were happy to give it to FIL, for free, via CF.
Now they have given you $400 for it.
That doesn’t make sense. I’d keep a watch on eBay auctions.

WaitrosePigeon · 09/12/2017 15:33

Hmmmm

TKRedLemonade · 09/12/2017 16:10

I think that's a fab ending. You very generously had wanted nothing for it but are 400 up, FIL got the gift he deserved, and CF not only didn't get a free Christmas present for FIL or make any money she is 400 down. Perfect y ending!

why12345 · 09/12/2017 16:15

That's great news! I'm glad it went to the right person and you have some extra money for Christmas! Well done!!

StefMay · 09/12/2017 16:36

Would they really give it to their FIL "and" give you cash?
Unlikely, but as you have got cash when you didn't expect it then the only thing you have lost is a CF friend... so win/win it is!! 😁

SchadenfreudePersonified · 09/12/2017 16:51

Cheers, Puzzled.

I see your point . . . .what if I fed the hippopotamus a diet of well-boiled Christmas sprouts? They've been bubbling since early October and are nearly done.

purplepandas · 09/12/2017 16:54

Haven't posted before on this thread but what a lovely update. Really pleased for you op.

OtterInDisgrace · 09/12/2017 17:01

Hmm. Sceptical. Not about the thread starter or veracity of the tale told, but that FIL has received the item. My guess is CF flogged it and pocketed any excess or has put it away til some time has passed and she can try to sell it again.

Oh well, as long as the OP is happy with the outcome, though :)

Bettyspants · 09/12/2017 17:27

Hmmm... did you see the fil? Write to say you hope he likes it?!

OtterInDisgrace · 09/12/2017 17:30

I’m afraid I wouldn’t be able to rest until I’d confirmed FIL definitely had the item. It would be like an itch I couldn’t scratch

RhiWrites · 09/12/2017 17:30

Great ending, thanks for the update, OP.

And thanks SchadenfreudePersonified for a great Aussie soap opera but of colour. I think you’ve got it right there.

Whinesalot · 09/12/2017 17:37

I hope that you can find a way to verify that he actually received it.

SauvignonBlanche · 09/12/2017 17:53

Will you cross paths with the FIL?

Tinselistacky · 09/12/2017 18:31

Maybe use the money for a fab night out with friends - ob a non invite for the cf.

ElephantsandTigers · 09/12/2017 18:32

The DH of CF sounds like a good egg and far too good for the CF. He needs to stop with the fake proposals though and should use this situation as the start of him standing up to her from now on.

chatty1 · 09/12/2017 19:14

Ask for a photo of the fil with the item and holding a newspaper of the day Grin

EvilDoctorBallerinaRoastDuck · 09/12/2017 19:50

^^

callkiki · 09/12/2017 20:13

I just wanted to say thanks for sharing and the updates, first thread I've ever followed. So entertaining that I wouldn't be surprised it it wasn't turned into a movie. If so, any ideas who plays you and who should pay the bad, bad, friend?

SchadenfreudePersonified · 09/12/2017 21:01

chatty1

Grin
EvilDoctorBallerinaRoastDuck · 09/12/2017 21:11

What a lovely outcome. Xmas Grin

PinkPanther27 · 09/12/2017 21:17

Great outcome silverbirch. I don't know what made me smile more- FIL's reaction or that the money was from CF's pathetic handbag fund 😀

mirren3 · 09/12/2017 21:25

And in terms of my friendship with CF, I agree that horse has bolted. I'll be pleasant towards her because we work in the same field but that's it
Am I the only one that thinks this is comedy gold? Horse bolted and work in the same field...

Salvadore · 09/12/2017 21:43

One door closes another opens. CF are out in force!
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3108722-Anyone-remember-the-Flexi-time-CF